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I saw a few posts on using protection and remembered a few things about my online search responses that made me go .
"I am 37 y.o., married, 2 children and had a vasectomy."
He's married. Strike one. He had a vasectomy, what does this mean? Sure enough, homie wants to assure me that he doesn't have any swimmers left, so there is no risk of me getting pregnant, which implies he wants to have unprotected sex. The guy is married with 2 kids, online looking for sex, is willing to have it with a perfect stranger unprotected, and take it home to his wife? Strikes 2, 3 and 4.
"I've been married for 20 years and I have never cheated, so you don't have to worry about any diseases from me."
K, married. Strike one. Again, willing to have sex with a stranger unprotected and bring it home to his wife.
"I hate condoms, but I get tested regularly, so I'm safe."
For now! I must have missed the news that getting tested regularly prevents STD's. This is true of people I've met offline as well.
What is wrong with people? I overheard one gal talking about a guy she met one night, and how he took her home but neither one had protection. She laughed and said she gave him a free pass because he was so hot.
What is wrong with people? I overheard one gal talking about a guy she met one night, and how he took her home but neither one had protection. She laughed and said she gave him a free pass because he was so hot.
does this mean if your hot you are immune to STD's
This guy is as crazy as my co-workers ex! He has no idea what kind of disease he could pick up and like Chocolate said he'll gladly take it home to his wife. And then she'll divorce him,(p*ssed off, so it'll be ugly) Why can't he make everyone's lives easier by simply telling his wife he's unhappy? Then if she isn't willing to help save the marriage, then get a divorce then go looking for another relationship (or series of bed partners)?
I saw a few posts on using protection and remembered a few things about my online search responses that made me go .
"I am 37 y.o., married, 2 children and had a vasectomy."
He's married. Strike one. He had a vasectomy, what does this mean? Sure enough, homie wants to assure me that he doesn't have any swimmers left, so there is no risk of me getting pregnant, which implies he wants to have unprotected sex. The guy is married with 2 kids, online looking for sex, is willing to have it with a perfect stranger unprotected, and take it home to his wife? Strikes 2, 3 and 4.
"I've been married for 20 years and I have never cheated, so you don't have to worry about any diseases from me."
K, married. Strike one. Again, willing to have sex with a stranger unprotected and bring it home to his wife.
"I hate condoms, but I get tested regularly, so I'm safe."
For now! I must have missed the news that getting tested regularly prevents STD's. This is true of people I've met offline as well.
What is wrong with people? I overheard one gal talking about a guy she met one night, and how he took her home but neither one had protection. She laughed and said she gave him a free pass because he was so hot.
Married = strikes 1 through a million just right there...plus just trolling for random stranger sex? Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
Only semi-related but hey, I've had the Big V and was monogamous\celibate for 15 years up until not so long ago.
With this background, and exclusive commitment, I haven't had too much trouble getting my partner (after getting comfortable with her past) to go condom-free.
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