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ok I want to know some real life experience/examples.. does anyone who settles down with a person who loves you more than you love her/him? are you happy?
I couldn't end up with someone who loves me more because ultimately I would treat them poorly because I would consider them weak. Sounds horrible, but I'm speaking from past experience.
I love my wife, but she easily loves me more. It's amazing to me how much love women can have. I actually feel humbled some times as men can be so selfish. For example, I was going to iron my shirts tonight and Mrs BP knew it. So after dinner, she started dishes and I layed on the couch (loooooooooooooong day at work). I got up to iron my shirts and she's 3/4 way done. So now I'm posting here and she's finishing up the ironing.
I am that person. He loves me passionately, I love him as a companion. I am content, he is not. Neither of us is leaving. He has serious health problems with which I cope (including med bills), but does serious remodelling work around the place (with a helper who does the physical stuff). We've been married for almost 23 years, and most has been good.
My grandmother told me that if I ever had a choice between marrying someone I love or marrying someone who loved me, pick the one who loved me. She said they'd take better care of me.
My grandmother told me that if I ever had a choice between marrying someone I love or marrying someone who loved me, pick the one who loved me. She said they'd take better care of me.
one thing I am worried is that if how happy I am largely depends on how much love he gives to me, then the relationship is too heavy and I don't know if i have the control over how much love he can give or how long the love will last
I would... I guess it's more secure. But I'd miss the passion.
As a girl, I've often heard that it's better to marry a man that loves you more.
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