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Old 04-20-2009, 09:15 PM
 
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Women do not want to hear that garbage. Even if her trunk is over flowing with junk you gots to tell her that she's tiny and precious. I'm asexual how did I know that?

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What’s wrong about telling a woman her rear is as wide as a caboose. I love cabooses.
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Old 04-20-2009, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I have never ever seen a woman be mean to a guy she wants but I'd love to hear what type of things they say or do, as it would probably be different. Usually women insult a man they don't want. This isn't about "stupid" or clumsy comments, but creepy or mean things that they then defend. I agree about the devaluing but it is irrational and men are normally quite logical.
HA! I was out at a bar once with a girlfriend, granted we were 22/23 and waiting tables and in school.

We started talking to some guys, whatever , and I mentioned "Uch, I have had such a long day, I am ready for a table, chairs and some drinks".

The guy looked at me, smirked and said "You are a brat huh?"

Girlfriend had to lead me away. Not a brat, opinionated and selfish as any 22/23 year old should (have been: edit 28 now ) be

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Old 04-20-2009, 09:32 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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Guys that do that are just plain stupid.
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Old 04-21-2009, 01:52 AM
 
Location: Texas
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You say that because the women here have told you that it was selfish and disrespectful for you to lead a woman on. We don't hate men, we hate the way some men treat women.

Of course, since you feel you are entitled to have a woman follow your agenda without telling her what it is, (like a dog on a leash) and we disagree, I can understand why you would take that as man-hate.
U hit on my point very well... although I have to agree with your earlier post.. you fall in the trap also.. my point is not that men dont say stupid things.. my point is not all men do.. most of you all generalize and say "men", "women" whatever suits you at the time. Dont point out a gender just because the person who did the stupid thing happened to be a "man" or a "woman". Point that individual out.. because not all "men" or "women" fit the mold you are trying to point out...
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Old 04-21-2009, 02:09 AM
 
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yeah..... the women hating part was not directed towards you. sorry for the confusion

i am saying in general from the women that post in the relationship forums
You throw comments like that around and you expect women to not say anything back?
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Old 04-21-2009, 03:26 AM
 
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Just wondering the deal. Someone suggested these are heterosexual mysogynists, who resent their need for a woman, but don't think they are really bad guys.
It's well documented no doubt right here on CDF that nice guys finish last. Men make rude/inappropriate comments to women often so they aren't that nice guy, simple as that. Even if it turns off the majority of women, can you blame him if it gives him a fighting chance with some women, instead of zero chance with all of them? Of course all of us can make a ridiculous comment from time to time. Politeness dictates giving it a pass (at least don't dig in too deep) when it's infrequent.
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Old 04-21-2009, 05:34 AM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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You throw comments like that around and you expect women to not say anything back?
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If my future wife gained over 15 pounds then then I would slap her with divorce papers so fast that she would not know what hit her.

People can call me shallow or any other name in the book. I really dont care. It is DISGUSTING

Of course it will be excused during pregnancy and a couple of months directly afterwards

'nuff said.
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Old 04-21-2009, 06:14 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I've heard stupid things come out of the mouths of both genders, I don't think it's a man thing.
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Old 04-21-2009, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
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i was going to say something, but then i realized the thin skin I'd be puncturing, and decided it was inappropriate.
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Old 04-21-2009, 08:03 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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I have never ever seen a woman be mean to a guy she wants but I'd love to hear what type of things they say or do, as it would probably be different. Usually women insult a man they don't want. This isn't about "stupid" or clumsy comments, but creepy or mean things that they then defend. I agree about the devaluing but it is irrational and men are normally quite logical.
Women do that all the time, but they don't really mean it. It's the 'technique' of playing the mean, unattainable '*****.'
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