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Ive met quite a few women in my time and I noticed that some of the most gorgeous women by most ppl standards were single. I always would ask why are they single and the usuall reply is they havn't found Mr right. However once I got to know them I noticed they are control freaks with compulsive disorders. or jsut plain old crazy. have any guys had these same experiences?
I think outrageously beautiful women (and men) have lots of options when it comes to mating, marriage, etc. That makes many of them extremely selective .. some neurotically so. I find it kind of sad when I meet a woman who thinks that her looks are going to carry her through life ... because no matter how stunning a woman is, she's not going to be stunning past a certain age. A 25-year-old Hollywood-beautiful girl (with a shallow character and intellect) is in for a big surprise if she thinks the world will always be her oyster... and all she has to do is sit back and count the men who will fish it out of the sea and bring it to her.
I've noticed though that oftentimes beautiful women have beautiful souls too .. and sometimes ugly is to the bone. C'est la vie.
Several years ago I worked at a company where one of the most senior people was in his 70s. A brilliant and kind man who often let me stop by to chat, and who never said no when I needed help regarding work.
He had a photo of a gorgeous blonde getting her hair done. It was his first daughter's wedding day.
I told him, "sir, with all due respect, your daughter is beautiful!" (And I meant it - she was hot)
He told me, "Sprawling, she is a looker, but you'll be surprised. Back in high school she wasn't any uglier, but she couldn't get a boyfriend. No one asked her out. So one day I went up to the boys in the locker room (he was an assistant coach in that high school's varsity football team), and said, 'boys, how come none of you ask her out? Is she ugly or something?'"
He then said, "and those boys all looked at me funny and said, 'coach, it's not that she's ugly. She's just so gorgeous that I don't think she'd even look at me, ya know?'"
Now this is high school. But if even the popular, in-crowd high school football jocks, who by any standard tend to be vascular and manly, were insecure about approaching a nice and pretty girl, it shows that sometimes the prettiest specimens simply go untouched.
I used to be - and sometimes, I confess, still am - this way. It took me an experience with an extremely good-looking female (who had been asked out by a number of guys I'd known) to realize that oftentimes, we men dramatize these women to be superhuman. Granted, I wouldn't ask out a Victoria's Secret model. But this specific girl had a beautiful face and a great body (take my word for it). It just took me some courage to approach her and to treat her like a human being.
After that, I "loosened up" and became more confident with women who were better-looking. Pretty faces? nice figures? long legs? Amazing eyes? You're human. You fart, sweat, stink, smell, and burp like anybody else. Subject to insecurities, fears, pain, hurt, tears, and worries like anybody else. Once a man gets past that and sees a woman as just another human being, just built differently, it gets MUCH easier.
Because women are programmed to find a mate and reproduce to keep that mate and apparently women dont work and cant support themselves, so the most beautiful women will only marry rich men and rich men only want hot women but there are only so many rich men to go around, or so I've been told here on CD.
Because women are programmed to find a mate and reproduce to keep that mate and apparently women dont work and cant support themselves, so the most beautiful women will only marry rich men and rich men only want hot women but there are only so many rich men to go around, or so I've been told here on CD.
I think outrageously beautiful women (and men) have lots of options when it comes to mating, marriage, etc. That makes many of them extremely selective .. some neurotically so. I find it kind of sad when I meet a woman who thinks that her looks are going to carry her through life ... because no matter how stunning a woman is, she's not going to be stunning past a certain age. A 25-year-old Hollywood-beautiful girl (with a shallow character and intellect) is in for a big surprise if she thinks the world will always be her oyster... and all she has to do is sit back and count the men who will fish it out of the sea and bring it to her.
I've noticed though that oftentimes beautiful women have beautiful souls too .. and sometimes ugly is to the bone. C'est la vie.
Maybe they simply aren't interested in marriage. Maybe they're not relying on their looks to get them through life. There are a lot of people in this world who are just not cut out for marriage.
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