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There are really only three times when I can't be bothered: When I'm tired, when I'm mad at the guy, and when I'm immersed in an activity that takes timing and concentration, like cooking.
Which reminds me: What is it with men trying to start something up in the kitchen while a gal is in the middle of slicing tomatoes or something? Are they not afraid of knives? Scoot!
It's the sight of a man's two favorite things in the whole world, FOOD and an opportunity to have sex--in the same room! Is what sends them over the edge. They can't help it!
Recently my SO and I were faced with this exact problemo..... I would like to get it on and over with before we go to bed or at least go to bed early enough to enjoy it and fall to sleep together. Lately though I have found myself turning my SO down. I hate it! I feel really bad and selfish in doing that because he is always ready willing and able! I am trying to initiate it more on my end this way we start sooner <3 It seems to be working and it has sparked both of our interests for each other again!
It's the sight of a man's two favorite things in the whole world, FOOD and an opportunity to have sex--in the same room! Is what sends them over the edge. They can't help it!
There it is. Sex and a sandwich. I guess the adrenaline junkies like to throw in knifes and such.
When your SO is showing signs that they are interested in intimacy do you think it is selfish to turn them down?
I mean, they are needing something and you are saying, "Nope. Sorry, ain't gonna happen."
Obviously there are times of the month this isn't an option but other than that would it be selfish because YOU are too tired or YOU have to work in the morning or YOU....YOU...YOU. What about THEM THEM THEM??
Yeah I guess at times it may seem a little selfish to say No because when you want something you expect them to say Yes and not turn you down as well. But if you don't want to then it's not going to be enjoyable because you really aren't interested at that moment and just giving in to please him/her.
I have said No a couple of times to my boyfriend but in the end I usually give in because I feel really guilty and he starts making comments that will make me feel worse I end up enjoying it but I feel if someone says No then it should just be No... leave it alone and next time maybe you can say No see how they feel
If I said, "hey babe give me some sex." I'd expect to be turned down 105 times out of 100. Come on guys, you know what to do if you want a little loving.
If I said, "hey babe give me some sex." I'd expect to be turned down 105 times out of 100. Come on guys, you know what to do if you want a little loving.
I know what you mean, but sometimes with two people who have full time jobs, what are you gonna do.....?
If I said, "hey babe give me some sex." I'd expect to be turned down 105 times out of 100. Come on guys, you know what to do if you want a little loving.
Sure. Take out the trash. Wash the dishes. Go to the market. Get a better paying job...then maybe...
For the men: perhaps if you made it worth your partner's while, you'd hear "yes" more often. I love my hubby, but he's definitely gotten "worse for the wear" over the years. Sometimes, I just can't find the energy to get all hot and bothered for "that". no thanks...I'd rather catch my zzzz's.
Two things...1) Don't we all tend to be worse for the wear...physically speaking...?
2) With the simple two part formula for men it's easy. Focus less on the sandwich and more on the sex. Then he's more fit and motivated...
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<3 It seems to be working and it has sparked both of our interests for each other again!
Splinters from the kitchen table
