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Old 05-13-2009, 11:06 PM
 
Location: The O.C.--Soon, ATL
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[quote=killer2021;8798799]Online personals are bad from the start. Women know there is like 25 dudes for every female on there so they like to be picky about it. I would say if you aren't looking for a serious relationship then pass on online dating, don't even attempt it. Every chick on there has something to hide. Either single mom, super fat, super ugly, mental issues who knows.

Any women worth being with isn't using online dating.

Online dating, AVOID.[/quote]

Well, the good thing about this post is that the women who date online don't have to worry about having to possibly run into him on there.
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Old 05-13-2009, 11:15 PM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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Online personals are bad from the start. Women know there is like 25 dudes for every female on there so they like to be picky about it. I would say if you aren't looking for a serious relationship then pass on online dating, don't even attempt it. Every chick on there has something to hide. Either single mom, super fat, super ugly, mental issues who knows.

Any women worth being with isn't using online dating.

Online dating, AVOID.[/quote]

Well, the good thing about this post is that the women who date online don't have to worry about having to possibly run into him on there.
hmmm, good point
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Old 05-13-2009, 11:30 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Then say you are looking for a friend. Was foreplay buddy your term? Actually I've never heard that before. Would this be friends with benefits? If I don't get what you mean, reading your words, then maybe a solution is to rewrite what you are looking for. I will check back in a bit. Write your ad again. I'll give you my idea of what you meant. Translate it into girlspeak. What do you think of this idea?

I say Phone friend because I don't be looking to meet face to face for a while
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Old 05-13-2009, 11:34 PM
 
Location: southern california
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And how can you know and say every woman online isn't worth dating? Have you met them all?
Just because someone doesn't meet someone at work doesn't mean they aren't a good person. I am sure there are some real skaggs online, but it's the same with men...there are married men, men living with women, men who lie about their attributes, etc. So, we both have to weed out...
i respectfully disagree . unless you date them all you cant form an accurate assessment of online dating?. everything is the same for men and women on online dating?
i dont think so.
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Old 05-14-2009, 12:17 AM
 
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So you're looking for a phone sex buddy? Most women on the planet, ok all, arent lookiing for phone sex buddies. We barely want to do it for our lazy boyfriend every ten years when he's at work. Much less for a complete stranger . The replys would be zero if these women didn't actually beleive you.What I mean is that these women reply because they can't beleive you actually just want a phone buddy. Men are usually not that "naive?"
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Old 05-14-2009, 02:19 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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So you're looking for a phone sex buddy? Most women on the planet, ok all, arent lookiing for phone sex buddies. We barely want to do it for our lazy boyfriend every ten years when he's at work. Much less for a complete stranger . The replys would be zero if these women didn't actually beleive you.What I mean is that these women reply because they can't beleive you actually just want a phone buddy. Men are usually not that "naive?"

Again, Phone Buddy not Phone Sex. I'm not into that
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Old 05-14-2009, 02:28 PM
 
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I have been asking for these type of relationships lately like

Penpal
Foreplay Buddy
Phone Friend

Why is it that a woman tries and see what my ULTIMATE GOAL of one of these relatonships is instead of just going with the flow of being my Penpal, Phone Friend, or Foreplay/TV Buddy?


Is it that they don''t believe me?
Maybe they are creeped out by your bizarre choices?

A penpal, a foreplay buddy, and a phone friend? WTF? If you're dead set on being weird, you probably oughta just pick one.

I will grant you this, however - it is in women's nature to assume things about you and try to "read between the lines." I think it is some sort of defense or safety mechanism, you even see it routinely in this forum. You'd never notice it from talking to people, but once you see them type their thoughts out it becomes evident that they assume the worst about you.
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Old 05-14-2009, 02:40 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Maybe they are creeped out by your bizarre choices?

A penpal, a foreplay buddy, and a phone friend? WTF? If you're dead set on being weird, you probably oughta just pick one.

I will grant you this, however - it is in women's nature to assume things about you and try to "read between the lines." I think it is some sort of defense or safety mechanism, you even see it routinely in this forum. You'd never notice it from talking to people, but once you see them type their thoughts out it becomes evident that they assume the worst about you.

If they are creeped out then why the hell would they reply? Medication Reasons?
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Old 05-14-2009, 03:01 PM
 
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So how are we supposed to meet others? Stand on the local corner with an "Eat at Joe's" sign?
Well, you could hand out flyers.
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Old 05-14-2009, 07:10 PM
 
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If they are creeped out then why the hell would they reply? Medication Reasons?
They reply because they probably want to get it right.
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