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Old 05-13-2009, 06:16 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I have been asking for these type of relationships lately like

Penpal
Foreplay Buddy
Phone Friend

Why is it that a woman tries and see what my ULTIMATE GOAL of one of these relatonships is instead of just going with the flow of being my Penpal, Phone Friend, or Foreplay/TV Buddy?


Is it that they don''t believe me?
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Old 05-13-2009, 06:24 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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I have been asking for these type of relationships lately like

Penpal
Foreplay Buddy
Phone Friend

Why is it that a woman tries and see what my ULTIMATE GOAL of one of these relatonships is instead of just going with the flow of being my Penpal, Phone Friend, or Foreplay/TV Buddy?


Is it that they don''t believe me?
Foreplay Buddy?

Wait - aren't you supposed to be in the Work & Employment forums???
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Old 05-13-2009, 06:26 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Foreplay Buddy?

Wait - aren't you supposed to be in the Work & Employment forums???

Hey look I need relaxation every once in a while-lol
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Old 05-13-2009, 06:30 PM
 
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Online personals are bad from the start. Women know there is like 25 dudes for every female on there so they like to be picky about it. I would say if you aren't looking for a serious relationship then pass on online dating, don't even attempt it. Every chick on there has something to hide. Either single mom, super fat, super ugly, mental issues who knows.

Any women worth being with isn't using online dating.

Online dating, AVOID.
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:00 PM
 
Location: USA
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Online personals are bad from the start. Women know there is like 25 dudes for every female on there so they like to be picky about it. I would say if you aren't looking for a serious relationship then pass on online dating, don't even attempt it. Every chick on there has something to hide. Either single mom, super fat, super ugly, mental issues who knows.

Any women worth being with isn't using online dating.

Online dating, AVOID.
So how are we supposed to meet others? Stand on the local corner with an "Eat at Joe's" sign?
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:04 PM
 
Location: USA
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And how can you know and say every woman online isn't worth dating? Have you met them all?
Just because someone doesn't meet someone at work doesn't mean they aren't a good person. I am sure there are some real skaggs online, but it's the same with men...there are married men, men living with women, men who lie about their attributes, etc. So, we both have to weed out...
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:26 PM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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So how are we supposed to meet others? Stand on the local corner with an "Eat at Joe's" sign?
follow Killer around, & grab all of those who laugh him off
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Maybe we should all just follow Killer around with "Eat At Joes" signs.
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:48 PM
 
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maybe we should all just follow killer around with "eat at joes" signs.
LMAO!!!

I needed that giggle! Thanks twinkle!
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Old 05-13-2009, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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I have been asking for these type of relationships lately like

Penpal
Foreplay Buddy
Phone Friend

Why is it that a woman tries and see what my ULTIMATE GOAL of one of these relatonships is instead of just going with the flow of being my Penpal, Phone Friend, or Foreplay/TV Buddy?


Is it that they don''t believe me?
No, we actually do believe you and that might be the MAIN problem. Most of us women do not want to be JUST a penpal, foreplay buddy or phone friend. There are some of us that prefer not to waste our time doing petty stuff like that and feel like we are being USED with nothing positive to come out of it at the end just a little fun.

While some women (probably married or taken) or YOUNG IMMATURE GIRLS might want to play around like you do some of us ladies are looking for the REAL DEAL and don't want to be labeled as the mentioned above.

Thank You
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