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Old 05-21-2009, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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For several months now I have had a comfortable back and forth with a male member on here. More or less casual conversation but some of a sexual nature, some referring to posts I have made etc.

By the way he spoke to me it was my assumption that he was single. Stupid me. My posts which he seems to follow closely make it clear how I feel about married men who flirt with other women, sleep with other women etc.

This man after reading the penis size thread even wrote me to tell me how big he was, would it be enough for me and too bad we didn't meet 15 years ago. Thats of course when I asked "15 years ago, why?" and he told me that he was married.

Personally I never thought much of it, I was not into the guy, it was just someone interesting to talk to however I should imagine his wife would feel differently if she knew the things he was saying to another woman on the internet.

It truly makes me SICK to have unknowingly participated in this. I would copy and paste his posts here to teach him a lesson but I suspect the mods would not appreciate that.

My take on marriage is that you should never do something when your spouse isn't around that you can't do when they are.

Evidently I have more respect for his marriage then he does.
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Old 05-21-2009, 08:35 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i often get encouraged to have sexual conversations with women, who later act most offended.
in the book "games people play" this is called NIGUUSOB
now ive got you you SOB. or RAPO.
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Old 05-21-2009, 08:38 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Originally Posted by Lindsey_Mcfarren View Post
For several months now I have had a comfortable back and forth with a male member on here. More or less casual conversation but some of a sexual nature, some referring to posts I have made etc.

By the way he spoke to me it was my assumption that he was single. Stupid me. My posts which he seems to follow closely make it clear how I feel about married men who flirt with other women, sleep with other women etc.

This man after reading the penis size thread even wrote me to tell me how big he was, would it be enough for me and too bad we didn't meet 15 years ago. Thats of course when I asked "15 years ago, why?" and he told me that he was married.

Personally I never thought much of it, I was not into the guy, it was just someone interesting to talk to however I should imagine his wife would feel differently if she knew the things he was saying to another woman on the internet.

It truly makes me SICK to have unknowingly participated in this. I would copy and paste his posts here to teach him a lesson but I suspect the mods would not appreciate that.

My take on marriage is that you should never do something when your spouse isn't around that you can't do when they are.

Evidently I have more respect for his marriage then he does.
Yah, I'd be a little incensed.
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Old 05-21-2009, 08:45 PM
 
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For several months now I have had a comfortable back and forth with a male member on here. More or less casual conversation but some of a sexual nature, some referring to posts I have made etc.

By the way he spoke to me it was my assumption that he was single. Stupid me. My posts which he seems to follow closely make it clear how I feel about married men who flirt with other women, sleep with other women etc.

This man after reading the penis size thread even wrote me to tell me how big he was, would it be enough for me and too bad we didn't meet 15 years ago. Thats of course when I asked "15 years ago, why?" and he told me that he was married.


Personally I never thought much of it, I was not into the guy, it was just someone interesting to talk to however I should imagine his wife would feel differently if she knew the things he was saying to another woman on the internet.

It truly makes me SICK to have unknowingly participated in this. I would copy and paste his posts here to teach him a lesson but I suspect the mods would not appreciate that.

My take on marriage is that you should never do something when your spouse isn't around that you can't do when they are.

Evidently I have more respect for his marriage then he does.
just because he is married does not mean that they are not seperated

or that the marriage is not in the process of a divorce
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Old 05-21-2009, 09:09 PM
 
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lmao, you people are completely INSANE to ever consider meeting anyone online, especially this forum.

For the love of god, get a life and meet people in real life.
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Old 05-21-2009, 09:11 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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just because he is married does not mean that they are not seperated

or that the marriage is not in the process of a divorce
I think if that was the case, he would have said so. I found myself in a similar situation but I was dating the guy. I'm sorry you got invested in someone who is unavailable. I hope he'll be man enough to apologize when he reads this post.

btw, it's totally classy of you to not disclose his name.
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Old 05-21-2009, 09:14 PM
 
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I think if that was the case, he would have said so. I found myself in a similar situation but I was dating the guy. I'm sorry you got invested in someone who is unavailable. I hope he'll be man enough to apologize when he reads this post.

btw, it's totally classy of you to not disclose his name.
I don't think she "got invested". She said she was not into him in her post.
But what a dirtbag.
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Old 05-21-2009, 09:14 PM
 
Location: USA
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Originally Posted by Lindsey_Mcfarren View Post
For several months now I have had a comfortable back and forth with a male member on here. More or less casual conversation but some of a sexual nature, some referring to posts I have made etc.

By the way he spoke to me it was my assumption that he was single. Stupid me. My posts which he seems to follow closely make it clear how I feel about married men who flirt with other women, sleep with other women etc.

This man after reading the penis size thread even wrote me to tell me how big he was, would it be enough for me and too bad we didn't meet 15 years ago. Thats of course when I asked "15 years ago, why?" and he told me that he was married.

Personally I never thought much of it, I was not into the guy, it was just someone interesting to talk to however I should imagine his wife would feel differently if she knew the things he was saying to another woman on the internet.

It truly makes me SICK to have unknowingly participated in this. I would copy and paste his posts here to teach him a lesson but I suspect the mods would not appreciate that.

My take on marriage is that you should never do something when your spouse isn't around that you can't do when they are.

Evidently I have more respect for his marriage then he does.

Some may use online venues to meet someone and then meet real time.

There are alot of guys out there, married, who just want to see if they can get you to pay attention to them. To see if anyone will talk to them. He wasn't even going to get sex from you, but if he could get you to talk to him about his sexuality or sex acts, he was mentally stroked. Tell him to go shove it. Those types prey on single women, as if we owe them attention because they don't get it at home. He made his bed, let him lie in it.
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Old 05-21-2009, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Evidently I have more respect for his marriage then he does.
He didn't know that. Could've lucked out and found somebody with less respect!

I don't think that's an isolated case on forums.
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Old 05-21-2009, 09:27 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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D*****bag...he was definitley trying to get his ego stroked mentally...sheesh!
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