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i am dealing with a situation very simarly but i'm actually sleeping with one of my friends. the initial attraction and wanting to be with him more than friends began when we started hanging out a lot in a new city, and could not stop-addicted to each other. i started thinking of him in a physical way where as he thought of me in a physical way the whole time. for him it's the romantic nature towards me that he lacks. he calls me babe. we go on dates and kiss n public and take photos together. we had an amazing night this week and in the morning i couldn't help he had a certain sadness to him. usually super happy guy. he didn't want to tell me at first because he was going to look like an *******. he told me he is in love with someone who is "moving away" to be away from him, because she can't stop coming over. honestly, i know it's messed up but like this girl above, he had told me he didn't want a romantic involvement yet is doing all the things that make me view it that way. total mind ****. what to do? he is taking me to circus olei on tuesday. i think he told me as a wake up call. what do you guys think
I dated a guy for 3 years on and off who told me right off the bat he didn't want a relationship...then proceeded to bombard me with calls, texts, wanting to see me, and (again on and off for 3 years) blew hot and cold, often seeming like he was changing his mind....but whenever I'd get upset, he'd say "I told you I didn't want a relationship". In the end he dumped me to go back with his ex who he had never gotten totally over. Turned out the times he blew "hot" with me were when they weren't talking or he was mad at her, and the times he went cold, was when he was talking to her a lot again. Now when a guy tells me something like "I don't want a relationship", I believe him. He did want a relationship though, just not with me despite how strongly he came on.
Did you seriously consider getting drunk and having sex with this man would make him like you? Sex is no way to win a person over. It always fades if there is no emotional content.....
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I've known this guy for a few months and we quickly became friends. From the outset he has been open and clear that he's not over his ex yet and isn't interested in anything more than friends right now. The thing is, the more we do together, the more we talk, the more we get to know each other, the more I want a relationship with this man.
So any advice? I mean, the biggest holdup is that he isn't over his ex, and he might even be holding onto hope of getting back together with her. I know I should just be patient, but I'm finding it harder and harder to do so.
I've thought about getting him drunk and taking advantage of him then, but don't want it to backfire. Aside from that,I don't know what to do.
Help!
He is that hot?
Anyway, I would NEVER get in a relationship with a person who is not over an ex yet. My ego won't let me. I don't have the time to waste on a confused dude like that.
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