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05-29-2009, 12:04 PM
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Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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Dude she just wants to do you, use you, and be the first to beat that up and be your hero....don't worry about anything awkward, shucks you make a mess just clean it up or she'll have use for it and know what to do.  |
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05-29-2009, 01:34 PM
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It may be required that I get prissy and bewiggled but I feel more confident I can keep my comfort boundaries intact. I've been so habituated and resigned to women finding me unattractive and undatable throughout my life that this turn of events leaves me somewhat vulnerable. Perhaps I may yet turn her lust (if she indeed has this for me) into courtship.
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05-29-2009, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by pi'op
It may be required that I get prissy and bewiggled but I feel more confident I can keep my comfort boundaries intact. I've been so habituated and resigned to women finding me unattractive and undatable throughout my life that this turn of events leaves me somewhat vulnerable. Perhaps I may yet turn her lust (if she indeed has this for me) into courtship.
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Dude, part of the problem is that you are using terms like "prissy" and "bewiggled." Surely this plays some role in your interpersonal quandry. |
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05-29-2009, 03:11 PM
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Really! At 42 years old your hand MUST be tired! Go for it and give your hand a break already!  |
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05-29-2009, 03:16 PM
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Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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The other option, I suppose, is to tell her my "status" but this feels particularly embarrassing given her personality- perhaps with another woman of a less aggressive temperament and after a series of no expectation dates this would be possible.
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05-29-2009, 07:02 PM
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"You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension - a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas. You've just crossed over into the Twilight Zone."
"The Twilight Zone" (1959) - Memorable quotes
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05-29-2009, 07:05 PM
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Location: South Carolina
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Remember--When youre slappin the salami to her, her screaming "OH GOD! " is a good thing! Her asking "is it in yet?" is not!
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Good God!  |
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05-29-2009, 09:25 PM
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Go on the date.
And tell us all about it.
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05-29-2009, 09:40 PM
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the worst that could happen is you get laid, if not you no worse off than before, assuming this date was a total set up and someone you wouldn't run into should things go south
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05-29-2009, 10:38 PM
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Location: Nova Scotia
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You are a 42 year old virgin with a willing woman, geesh hard to decide. Can I ask why you waited so long? Is it religious?
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