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Old 05-29-2009, 09:41 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Obviously this makes me uneasy on a number of accounts.
May I ask what/who you are waiting for?

I do have my doubts if this is even a legit story. Sorry, but a 42 year old male virgin?
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Old 05-30-2009, 12:18 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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42 yr old virgin.


I've got some property in AZ with a nice ocean view for ya.




Seriously why do we answer this shyt. No man is 42 and never had any. he'd pay if he'd had to. It's just not natural to be that old and never had sex.

Come on.
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Old 05-30-2009, 02:20 PM
 
Location: Southeast
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It may be required that I get prissy and bewiggled but I feel more confident I can keep my comfort boundaries intact. I've been so habituated and resigned to women finding me unattractive and undatable throughout my life that this turn of events leaves me somewhat vulnerable. Perhaps I may yet turn her lust (if she indeed has this for me) into courtship.
You may want to drink a few glasses of some good champagne to get a good buzz going and that will loosen you up a bit, but only if the vibes are good with this woman.
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Old 05-30-2009, 02:22 PM
 
Location: Southeast
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Remember--When youre slappin the salami to her, her screaming "OH GOD! " is a good thing! Her asking "is it in yet?" is not!

I think Capt. Dan is really enjoying this thread.
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Old 05-30-2009, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Mountain View, CA
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You are a 42 year old virgin with a willing woman, geesh hard to decide. Can I ask why you waited so long? Is it religious?
Does it matter? An awful lot of people on this board seem more interested in being amazed someone is a 42 year old virgin, or in making veiled comments suggesting the guy is a "loser" than in answering his question. That's unfortunate.

Why he is a virgin doesn't matter. Could be for religious reasons, and he is now changing his views some. Could be he hasn't met the right person. Could be he isn't that great with women. Could be he's ignored dating and focused on career. Who knows.

Bottom line is, sexual past is really not anyone's business. He should tell this woman he's inexperienced, but other than that, there's no need to go into detail. Certainly not on a first date.

I love how people all seem to think if you are 42 and a virgin that somehow means you should have sex with anyone who as willing ASAP. Virginity is just a status - nothing more. It doesn't change your views about sex one way or the other.

So, OP, my advice - don't have sex just to have it. If you want to do it, but are nervous, that's natural - have the sex. If you don't, then don't. If you want to wait and date the woman a while longer first, that's totally normal - and if you are interested in her long term - perhaps advisable!

Good luck.
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Old 06-04-2009, 11:55 PM
 
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what happened w/ this
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Old 06-05-2009, 12:08 AM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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Really! At 42 years old your hand MUST be tired! Go for it and give your hand a break already!
You're making the grand assumption that he doesn't own a dog........or.................he doesn't have farm animals around.

Last edited by tijlover; 06-05-2009 at 12:10 AM.. Reason: change lin
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Old 06-05-2009, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Good God!
Okay! So some ladies scream "Good God!" instead of Oh God!" My bad Colddiamond!!
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Old 06-11-2009, 11:06 PM
 
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Maybe the guy is just waiting for the right woman. Im a male and a virgin and ill be 42 next month but my virginity is by choice and im waiting till marriage. Why has our society become so shallow and why is it a great accomplishment to have premarital sex????????? Now a days its all about sex and love is the icing on the cake when it should be the other way around.
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Old 06-12-2009, 04:12 AM
 
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Seriously why do we answer this shyt. No man is 42 and never had any. he'd pay if he'd had to. It's just not natural to be that old and never had sex.

Come on.
It is possible for a man to be a 42 year old virgin if he is ugly and can not afford the services of a prostitute because he works at a minimum wage job.

Most guys who are below average in looks and do not have a high paying job, do not really have an active sex life anyways unless they are settling for very ugly women.
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