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Old 06-02-2009, 10:18 PM
 
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I'm usually a giver - an "er" most of the time.

And I usually get rave reviews.
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Glendale
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eeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....for both things everyone was thinking....it makes him nuts!!!!! or busts em...
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:25 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I'm usually a giver - an "er" most of the time.

And I usually get rave reviews.
I care more for my own pleasure than for evaluation and validation. That's not to say I'm really as selfish as to not reciprocate, but if I have to honestly state my first choice, it is receiving.
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:31 PM
 
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I care more for my own pleasure than for evaluation and validation. That's not to say I'm really as selfish as to not reciprocate, but if I have to honestly state my first choice, it is receiving.
Gosh it certainly isn't for evaluation/validation. What an odd statement. But I do prefer to give pleasure rather than to receive. I always have...what can I say....I'm just that way.
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:34 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Gosh it certainly isn't for evaluation/validation. What an odd statement.
That's how it sounded to me. Sorry if I got it wrong.

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But I do prefer to give pleasure rather than to receive. I always have...what can I say....I'm just that way.
Aaah, the pleasers... the teachers, the nurses, the social workers, etc... I don't think you're in any of these fields, though...
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:39 PM
 
Location: Glendale
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being an (er) is so selfish....for me anyhow....cause...*nut busts* I like it
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:45 PM
 
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That's how it sounded to me. Sorry if I got it wrong.
Totally.

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Aaah, the pleasers... the teachers, the nurses, the social workers, etc... I don't think you're in any of these fields, though...
I am in a position where I help people and solve problems. I've been doing that for years, and it's enormously satisfying. Not a teacher, but I could do it. A nurse or social worker, however, requires more "giving" than I've got.
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:47 PM
 
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Not a teacher, but I could do it. A nurse or social worker, however, requires more "giving" than I've got.
Ha-ha! That's why I was surprised. You just don't strike me as the most "giving" type...
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:49 PM
 
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Ha-ha! That's why I was surprised. You just don't strike me as the most "giving" type...
I'm not. Sometimes I think I'm incredibly selfish. Ah well...I do what I can...and I am trying to be better about it!!
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Old 06-02-2009, 10:53 PM
 
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I'm not. Sometimes I think I'm incredibly selfish. Ah well...I do what I can...and I am trying to be better about it!!
Oh, don't worry, dear! It's not like I'm some big-time good samaritan!
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