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Ohhh you are looking so good at 45 all trim, with glowing skin and in a matching pair of panty & bra!! Is your sister Blanche on board with you about married men?
Did you read through all the posts in this thread? What about the title?
I think this was one of those inflammatory threads.
The OP is bragging about having an affair.
My original question was "What do people think of women who date married men?" I'm not sure how you interpret that as inflammatory or bragging, but whatever turns your crank.
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Are the women married? If they're not, they're disrespecting no-one and they're in the very human pursuit of their own happiness. The men who are married and date other women and won't tell their wives, on the other hand, are failing. But then, that's human too.
Are the women married? If they're not, they're disrespecting no-one and they're in the very human pursuit of their own happiness. The men who are married and date other women and won't tell their wives, on the other hand, are failing. But then, that's human too.
Hi noela,
Do you find that affairs are more accepted in Europe?
Do you find that affairs are more accepted in Europe?
W.
Not at all, W.! I'm guessing they're estigmatized everywhere, and with good reason because they tend to cause a lot of pain and/or a usually fatal breakdown in communication. But the point is, if we want to judge... Who's the one that made a vow to be faithful and respectful, the married man or the single-and-dating woman? I wouldn't date a married man, but because I value my happiness a lot and I know dating a married man would bring me misery and insecurity... Why should I waste my time? But should I worry for a woman, his wife, I don't even know if her own husband doesn't seem to care enough to stop cheating (again, I realise this is an over-simplification since many people cheat and experience suffering and a rotten conscience doing it)? Hm... I don't think so.
Are the women married? If they're not, they're disrespecting no-one and they're in the very human pursuit of their own happiness. The men who are married and date other women and won't tell their wives, on the other hand, are failing. But then, that's human too.
I don't agree. If I know good and well a man is in a committed relationship whether married or not, and I still pursue him I am just as guilty. Don't pass the buck off to the philandering spouse.
If you are in a relationship like this:
-you can't call after a certain hour because it is family dinner time or bed time
-he can't have any pictures of you in his wallet, at his desk, in his home
-you hang up when he doesn't answer the phone or play the wrong number game
-he can't introduce you to his close family members or friends
-your quality time is spent at the Quality Inn, Motel 6, Red Roof Inn, etc
YOU (as in whoever is playing this game, not you specifically) are just as guilty as he is. You don't have to know his wife OR owe her anything. If he was single, would you put up with that behaviour above? IF yes you are just a little bit desperate dear.
-your quality time is spent at the Quality Inn, Motel 6, Red Roof Inn, etc
Or maybe your quality time is in an upscale Manhattan apartment that he pays for you to live in. Motel 6... yuck!
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