Single Moms and Dating (lesbian, settle, nice, wife)
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It is, and he needn't do so. "Nurturing" men are nancy boys. And possibly pedophiles.
I'm curious where you have accumulated all your relationship and child-rearing expertise?
I think we are around the same age and I've already been married for 13 years and had two kids.
Frankly, you should probably get yourself a vasectomy because I don't think that being a father at too old of an age is fair to the kids. Either that or use your innate method of birthcontrol, your personality.
I'm curious where you have accumulated all your relationship and child-rearing expertise?
I think we are around the same age and I've already been married for 13 years and had two kids.
Frankly, you should probably get yourself a vasectomy because I don't think that being a father at too old of an age is fair to the kids. Either that or use your innate method of birthcontrol, your personality.
Oddly, women approach ME for relationships, instead of the other way around. I must be different in person, eh? Or I have nothing to gain by impressing you?
Its not as simple as it sounds. If your looking for a screw buddy then why would u care if she has a kid or not. If your looking for your soulmate then there are many questions that need to be asked. for me , I know exactly how im going to wanna raise my kids, and if im dating a single mom I have no right at all to put in my 2 cents worth on raising her kid, and he for sure wont want to call me dad. While I wont say its totally impossible to fathom the thought of doing it, but it would be very hard for me to do, unless she was open to teh idea of thinking of me as the father of that kid (which is an almost impossible thought)
for me , I know exactly how im going to wanna raise my kids, and if im dating a single mom I have no right at all to put in my 2 cents worth on raising her kid, and he for sure wont want to call me dad. While I wont say its totally impossible to fathom the thought of doing it, but it would be very hard for me to do, unless she was open to teh idea of thinking of me as the father of that kid (which is an almost impossible thought)
It all depends on the amount of effort that goes into it. With my step-dad I almost always call him by his first name but I think of him as Dad and to other people I always say my Dad. He did just as much punishing and reprimanding as my mother did (but with my family almost any adult was allowed to reprimand me. We believe in that whole it takes a village thing ) and he also spent as much time checking my homework, driving me back and forth to whatever activity I was in and was present for just about every major event in my life.
So it is possible; I think with us it was because I felt he genuinely loved and cared about me and wasn't just doing things because I was his wife's child.
Guy could end up paying child support if: (doesnt happen 100% of the time but it does happen)
1. He adopted her kids
2. She has kid(s) from previous marriage, she divorce her current husband and she isnt working but her husband is.
3. In NC, if you wife cheats and have a baby from a guy, the current husband would still have to pay child support on that kid even though it isnt his...
Guy could end up paying child support if: (doesnt happen 100% of the time but it does happen)
1. He adopted her kids
2. She has kid(s) from previous marriage, she divorce her current husband and she isnt working but her husband is.
3. In NC, if you wife cheats and have a baby from a guy, the current husband would still have to pay child support on that kid even though it isnt his...
But if the husband was out of the country or something to that effect to prove that he wasnt around when the child was concevied then the husband maynot have to...but in either case its a shame for a woman to do that to a man when she is the one thats done wrong.
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) and he also spent as much time checking my homework, driving me back and forth to whatever activity I was in and was present for just about every major event in my life. 
