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Old 06-07-2009, 01:19 AM
 
Location: Bronx, NY
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I have seen that a post for the males dating online has been done. I will do the version for the females.

Ladies attention. If you are trying to find a decent guy online please...

1. Don't post pics showing your behind, tongues, etc.. This will only attract guys who only for one a one night stand.
2. State what you are really looking for in a guy.
3. Be feminine, guys loves when a girl is feminine.
4. Guys, do you have anything to add?
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Old 06-07-2009, 01:27 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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1. Don't post pics showing your behind, tongues, etc.. This will only attract guys who only for one a one night stand.
Why not? I'd appreciate honesty (even if it's unintended) myself and say "next"! I'm sure these pics save many guys a lot of potential unnecessary headache.
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Old 06-07-2009, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Seattle metro, WA, US
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Originally Posted by nycricanpapi View Post
I have seen that a post for the males dating online has been done. I will do the version for the females.

Ladies attention. If you are trying to find a decent guy online please...

1. Don't post pics showing your behind, tongues, etc.. This will only attract guys who only for one a one night stand.
2. State what you are really looking for in a guy.
3. Be feminine, guys loves when a girl is feminine.
4. Guys, do you have anything to add?
Yep. "Just be yourself." Put it right on the top.
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Old 06-07-2009, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Yep. "Just be yourself." Put it right on the top.
In some people's cases that's a bad, bad, BAD advice!
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Old 06-07-2009, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Seattle metro, WA, US
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In some people's cases that's a bad, bad, BAD advice!
Nah, always good being old plain self. A-plenty of folks justly and promptly abort a date within minutes timeframe, after spotting a gaping fissure (chasm) between the advertised (thus expected) features and the actual merchandise delivered.
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Old 06-07-2009, 08:47 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Don't put up a photo with your 5 baby-daddies?
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Old 06-08-2009, 12:52 AM
 
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Don't post photos with your ex chopped out of the picture.

Don't hide behind sunglasses.

Don't do the myspace pics as in the self portrait looking up at the camera to hide the fact you are 350 pounds.

Actually I don't mind the pics for instance of women boozing it up as it just tells me they are on the road to alcoholism. Do you want that as a mother to your children?

I think the best policy is just to be bluntly honest. Trying to hide things I will just find out later will just disinterest me and have me leave you quickly.

Also when I look at a profile, I look at the pics first. Pictures speak a thousand words, so if the pics are poor or mysterious or look fake, or if there are very few pics, I depart. A good selection of pics showing the activities you do plus some good ones of yourself tells me a lot and has me bother to read the rest.
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Old 06-08-2009, 12:55 AM
 
Location: Bronx, NY
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Don't put up a photo with your 5 baby-daddies?
This one is good lol
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Old 06-08-2009, 01:57 AM
 
Location: USA
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I don't think anything matters. I think this is the following ad that will get responses:

"25 year old girl looking for Friends with Benefits guy, no strings attached, not looking for formal dating."
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Old 06-08-2009, 09:37 AM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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I don't think anything matters. I think this is the following ad that will get responses:

"25 year old girl looking for Friends with Benefits guy, no strings attached, not looking for formal dating."
Oh yeah, that's a good one!! And wait, here's a bit more to add to that...oh and I look like a porn star and act like one in the bedroom too, age, looks, financial status, race unimportant for you though!!! lol...
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