Much needed relationship advice (married, love, husband, family)
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
I've been seeing a coworker of mine for a few months now. We are very much in love with eachother but the problem is she's still married. At the time her and her husband were separated but still living together for the sake of the kids. Her husband didn't know about us until recently. After he found out she stopped seeing me. She said their marital issues were starting to affect their kids so she could no longer continue this relationship with me. I'm having a hard time understanding that because she's so miserable with him but with me she's happy. The only time we talk is when it's work related, nothing personal so I don't know if this is an opening or a closing. She recently moved 800 miled north with her husband and kids and I'm still clinging to hope that she will come back to me. Any advice on how I should go about this would be appreciated.
Here I explain my relationship issue. I don't know that I can let this grudge go. I don't know how. I am just so angry and hurt by them. Just has told me I need to let it go and try to get along with just the same they need to let it go and try to get along with me. i just really don't know that I can. I need help and advice. Jon has told me this. If i can't let it go and try to get along with his family he doesn't know that he could marry me because he doesn't want to be with someone who can't get along with his family. This hurts because I really still feel that it goes both ways. I have a grudge against his family the same that I feel that still have a grudge against me. Any comments on what to do or just thoughts on the situation would be greatly appreciated. I need as much help as I can get. I am sorry this was so long but I really needed to get this off my chest and look for some help and comfort.
I've been seeing a coworker of mine for a few months now. We are very much in love with eachother but the problem is she's still married. At the time her and her husband were separated but still living together for the sake of the kids. Her husband didn't know about us until recently. After he found out she stopped seeing me. She said their marital issues were starting to affect their kids so she could no longer continue this relationship with me. I'm having a hard time understanding that because she's so miserable with him but with me she's happy. The only time we talk is when it's work related, nothing personal so I don't know if this is an opening or a closing. She recently moved 800 miled north with her husband and kids and I'm still clinging to hope that she will come back to me. Any advice on how I should go about this would be appreciated.
Quote:
Originally Posted by opoll602
Here I explain my relationship issue. I don't know that I can let this grudge go. I don't know how. I am just so angry and hurt by them. Just has told me I need to let it go and try to get along with just the same they need to let it go and try to get along with me. i just really don't know that I can. I need help and advice. Jon has told me this. If i can't let it go and try to get along with his family he doesn't know that he could marry me because he doesn't want to be with someone who can't get along with his family. This hurts because I really still feel that it goes both ways. I have a grudge against his family the same that I feel that still have a grudge against me. Any comments on what to do or just thoughts on the situation would be greatly appreciated. I need as much help as I can get. I am sorry this was so long but I really needed to get this off my chest and look for some help and comfort.
What in the hell? Are you the same person using two IDs? Besides being in the wrong forum with this, your post(s) aren't making any sense...
Last edited by thepinksquid; 06-08-2009 at 07:51 PM..
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Re: Much needed relationship advice
