I was reading a thread about why women go for the bad boys,
here are two replies that caught my attention:
From Skoe: It is all about the sex! Think about Brad Pitt in Troy. That is the image of a bad boy, what woman wouldn't want to be taken by the likes of him? (Replace your ideal bad boy image in my example.)
My husband is the sweetest guy in the world. I don't want for anything but I have to admit that my whole dating history is with Bad Boys. It was fun, exciting, great sex but when it came down to having kids and a "normal" adult life I had to give them up.
Now I am a suburban house wife with a stable relationship and look to Melrose Place or Desperate Housewives to get my thrill fill.
From Mrs. Bewitched: I will restate what someone already said. It's about the s e x.
Girls automatically assume that the "bad boy" will be good in bed. These are the girls who like it a little ....rougher
Guys who will excite them and treat them a little, I guess, naughty. Not as a gentle little girl. The guy who grabs your hair and doesn't ask permission
These are the guys I was always attracted to when I was single...while my girlfriends were picking out the yuppies with the button down shirt, styled hair and the clean shaven face...I was looking at the tattooed, 5 o'clock shadow...hardened (probably criminals)....for that exact reason I posted up there
(still had to be good looking though! And preferably dark haired).
Kinda like a.....Colin Farrel. He's a little "dirty" and bad boyish.
BUT. That's not who you marry. You marry the good guy who wants to make the family and is financially stable and who won't make you worry about different things.
Probably because the bad boy won't do any of those things
Well that's not cool, It would suck if I find out the woman that I will marry secretly lusts thrill of the bad boys but had to give them up and marry me for a stable life, that's not really fair..
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