Lot of women don't realize this is TOO MUCH INFORMATION (wives, marry)
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Connecticut Pam is old school. I like that. However, as I imagine her saying "Ho-OAR" I can't help but also imagine the chick from Grease (not Sandy .. Sandy's brunette nemesis, the leader of the Pink Ladies) singing her big number expressing confusion that people want to look down on and hurt girls like her. Somewhere between the shaming of yesteryear and the free-for-all of today there must be a healthy balance. Right?
Another funny thing to see is something along the lines of, "I'm done partying and now I am looking for something more serious." Basically what she is saying is that she banged every guy on the block and now she wants to get serious with you. That means no NSA sex, threesomes or doing anything fun like that. Why would you want used goods? Pass on it.
There are lots of girls out there who will do NSA sex, fwb etc. Remember the vast majority of girls are passive. They sit around waiting for stuff to happen which is why the saying, "the guy who gets turned down the most also gets laid the most." tends to be true. That is because that guy is actually out playing the field. Talking with many girls - screening out the flakes/prudes and going with the easy meat. You have to find them and make it happen simple as that. If she is a prude, pass on it. No girl is worth waiting for or going above and beyond.
Single>married.
Yep, I don't waste two seconds on the girls that were "wild" and now all the sudden want to settle down. I remember one gal who wanted me and was ready to settle down but had spent the past 10 years smoking dope and banging every scuffy hippie dude that came along. No thanks.
That is the one thing with American women is they are extremely lazy and expect the men to carry all the water for them in developing a relationship. I make it known it's a two way street and if they don't like that there is the door.
Which means she has stress relief contacts. And I'm saying she can keep that information to herself?
Ok, not sure how dense you can be but that's not what she is saying, she is saying if that's all she wanted that THEORETICALLY it's only a phone call away. In other words, if she wanted just sex she could make a call and it would be a done deal, no mention of ongoing here just that it's entirely possible that all that is needed is ONE phone call.
Or in my case one text.
And I have said that too because we do have to remind the moron trolls who try to hit us up for sex even though we have stated that's not what we're after in our profiles so unfortunately for the dumba$$es with subpar IQ's we have to spell it out like we do for children.
Yep, I don't waste two seconds on the girls that were "wild" and now all the sudden want to settle down. I remember one gal who wanted me and was ready to settle down but had spent the past 10 years smoking dope and banging every scuffy hippie dude that came along. No thanks.
That is the one thing with American women is they are extremely lazy and expect the men to carry all the water for them in developing a relationship. I make it known it's a two way street and if they don't like that there is the door.
Boy between you and killer I don't know who's more appealing!!
Just because someone says they partied but are ready for something serious doesn't mean they went around sleeping with all kinds of guys, how are you making that connection? Partying does not always = sex. It means dancing, hanging out in bars with friends, and maybe drinking a bit too much sometimes.
You guys need to get a clue. And btw I wouldn't want either of you if you went around having a bunch of sexual partners. What's good for the goose.... Women don't like male sluts.
Hippocrites with double standards, you are! You want to sleep with whoever you can but they wouldn't be good enough to marry? Then neither are you. You men want everything. We want sex but if you give it up you're a low life. We want to marry good girls who look and act like porn stars in the bedroom. Oh and you'd better have an education, a good job, oh and btw cook for me and clean up after me and any kids we may have even though you work full-time too. That's the lazy American MAN for ya!
And btw killer, who says women in relationships or even marriages don't want fun stuff like threesomes?
I see a lot of ads or hear a lot of ads when a woman says-
"please don't respond if you are looking for just sex because if I really wanted to have sex I can easily call someone. I want something a lot deeper"
Why in the hell does a guy need to know that she has a FWB?????????????????
Too much information
I agree with the others, an ad like that doesn't mean that she has an FWB. She's only acknowledging that she knows that most guys are looking for these days... just no strings attached sex.
Basically, she's screening out waste of time guys like YOU and I'd say that it's working.
I think most women DO place ads saying what they are really looking for. And then they get guys sending them messages that say things like " I want to sniff your panties."
To the OP, in general most decent looking women can find someone, anyone who will have sex with them if they just want to a one night stand. Men, in general, say they don't like women who play games or don't beat around the bush (so to speak), so here is a woman putting it right out on the table: she is not looking for someone just to screw - she is looking for something more!
But she will still get messages that say things like "wanna hook up tonight?" Oh well......
Ha that still doesn't beat the time a guy messaged me and because I'm a nurse said I've had this enema fantasy and would you give me one??
Now Killer, if you want to sound like an authority, you may consider reading what you write before you hit the "Submit Reply" button.
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Originally Posted by killer2021
No girl looking for sex is going to find it online.
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The vast majority of women are looking for something more.
Then:
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There are lots of girls out there who will do NSA sex, fwb etc.
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Another funny thing to see is something along the lines of, "I'm done partying and now I am looking for something more serious."Basically what she is saying is that she banged every guy on the block and now she wants to get serious with you.
Which one is it?
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Why would you want used goods? Pass on it.
Then:
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Talking with many girls - screening out the flakes/prudes and going with the easy meat. You have to find them and make it happen simple as that.
Which one is it?
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No girl is worth waiting for or going above and beyond.
I think most women DO place ads saying what they are really looking for. And then they get guys sending them messages that say things like " I want to sniff your panties."
Or "You have FWB contacts."
"You're a *****."
"You don't really want something meaningful, you want me to hang you from the ceiling and call you nasty names."
"There are little green monsters under my bed."
Some people cease to exist unless there is drama under every rock.
I see a lot of ads or hear a lot of ads when a woman says-
"please don't respond if you are looking for just sex because if I really wanted to have sex I can easily call someone. I want something a lot deeper"
Why in the hell does a guy need to know that she has a FWB?????????????????
Too much information
It's not saying she has a FWB. It's so guys like the one in the post below will pass right on by them.
If you want to get rid of messages that are vocal in being anti FWB with YOU, then you have to get rid of guys like the one posted below.
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Originally Posted by killer2021
Stop your rambling and just pass on those girls. Let some other idiot go on the 6,000 dates and spending thousands of dollars before he ever gets laid. This is another reason to bypass on the online dating. No girl looking for sex is going to find it online. The vast majority of women are looking for something more.
Another funny thing to see is something along the lines of, "I'm done partying and now I am looking for something more serious." Basically what she is saying is that she banged every guy on the block and now she wants to get serious with you. That means no NSA sex, threesomes or doing anything fun like that. Why would you want used goods? Pass on it.
There are lots of girls out there who will do NSA sex, fwb etc. Remember the vast majority of girls are passive. They sit around waiting for stuff to happen which is why the saying, "the guy who gets turned down the most also gets laid the most." tends to be true. That is because that guy is actually out playing the field. Talking with many girls - screening out the flakes/prudes and going with the easy meat. You have to find them and make it happen simple as that. If she is a prude, pass on it. No girl is worth waiting for or going above and beyond.
Single>married.
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