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Old 06-21-2009, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Why? Why? Why?

First the most perfect boy friend I've ever met is gay and we can only be friends....and now:

I meet a straight guy who is sexy as hell. And so far, seems to be a really great catch. (Only flaw so far, he smokes - and yes he's hot enough that I'd rather talk him into quitting than move on) And of course this is a month before I'm moving to another State!

Why? Why? Why?

I just met him Tuesday...I guess it's too soon to talk him into moving with, huh?
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:12 AM
 
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Why? Why? Why?

First the most perfect boy friend I've ever met is gay and we can only be friends....and now:

I meet a straight guy who is sexy as hell. And so far, seems to be a really great catch. (Only flaw so far, he smokes - and yes he's hot enough that I'd rather talk him into quitting than move on) And of course this is a month before I'm moving to another State!

Why? Why? Why?

I just met him Tuesday...I guess it's too soon to talk him into moving with, huh?
It's also to soon to consider him a "great catch". Way too soon.
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:12 AM
 
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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Why? Why? Why?

First the most perfect boy friend I've ever met is gay and we can only be friends....and now:

I meet a straight guy who is sexy as hell. And so far, seems to be a really great catch. (Only flaw so far, he smokes - and yes he's hot enough that I'd rather talk him into quitting than move on) And of course this is a month before I'm moving to another State!

Why? Why? Why?

I just met him Tuesday...I guess it's too soon to talk him into moving with, huh?
Possibly, but

Sometimes......yep once in a while if the sex is just to good men have been known to do just about anything....
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:16 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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And so far, seems to be a really great catch. (Only flaw so far, he smokes - and yes he's hot enough that I'd rather talk him into quitting than move on)
Not to sound cold, but the truth is it wasn't gonna work out anyway since you plan to turn into another ttz (or whatever it was) from the get-go.
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:18 AM
 
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seems like u get "sprung" quite easily and go by looks and looks alone. less shallow more depth and u'll find ur special person soon enough
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:42 AM
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Location: MA/NH
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Being hot doesn't necessarily translate into great boyfriend material, let alone great husband material. And never count on a smoker to quit for love. And you met him last Tuesday? Way too soon to say that he's a great guy to have a relationship with. And... if he's that amazing, why is he still single and available???

Use him for a couple of great rolls in the sack (after having him gargle with mouthwash), then move on and don't look back.
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Old 06-21-2009, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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It's also to soon to consider him a "great catch". Way too soon.
Yeah, she's sort of on CESpeed
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Old 06-21-2009, 11:21 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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LOL...I don't think she was talking about marrying or stalking the guy, just that he might be someone she'd like to get to know better and the timing is just off.

There's more where he came from, Speedy.
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Old 06-21-2009, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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Why? Why? Why? First the most perfect boy friend I've ever met is gay and we can only be friends....and now:
I meet a straight guy who is sexy as hell. And so far, seems to be a really great catch. (Only flaw so far, he smokes - and yes he's hot enough that I'd rather talk him into quitting than move on) And of course this is a month before I'm moving to another State! Why? Why? Why?
I just met him Tuesday...I guess it's too soon to talk him into moving with, huh?
Look on the brighter side of this whole scenario..gay guys make awesome friends and they are the ultimate person to go clothes shopping with..trust me. I had a gay friend in high school and when he saw that no one was asking me to prom, he asked me to go with him. Now, this was years ago when gay people didn't openly admit they were gay. I had the best time ever and he helped me shop for my prom dress..it was awesome!

About this hot straight guy....cool your jets. I would definitely not ask him to move in as it is way too soon and who knows, there may be another hot guy living at your new location. Don't shut yourself off from the chances of meeting more people..not just yet. If you really like this guy and he likes you the same way, then try a long distance thing and see how that works.
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Old 06-21-2009, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Not to sound cold, but the truth is it wasn't gonna work out anyway since you plan to turn into another ttz (or whatever it was) from the get-go.
what is ttz?
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