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No I do not think it is weird, I have heard of others doing this…
Personally I dated this guy for awhile and whenever I slept over he snored SOOOO loud, but I snore too..not to loud but I do..
However he was a DJ…so he was useto staying up real late…which meant I usually fell asleep before he did..He made me my own Sleepy time cd which he played when I stayed over…I would knock out and I was dead to the world..
When I did wake up by chance to use the bathroom I would hear that awful racket…and I since my cd was on repeat all night I did not find it too hard to get to sleep.
I never slept in a separate bed…I could not even think about doing this…
i tend to toss around and change up my positioning trying to get comfortable when falling asleep just wont happen for me. in this case i will go sleep on the couch and let my wife get her rest undisturbed.
as long as you are not doing it because of some hate or other serious issue, who cares?
My guess "these distant relatives" should stay that way...What jerks! It is none of their business, period. And the fact that they felt like thye should editorialize your living situation is rude beyond disgusting.
If it works for you, and your relationship, then that's what counts. Tell them that politely, but firmly. If they continue tell them to mind there own business.
Recently some distant relatives and old friends who have not seen us for a long time came to visit. When we showed them around the house of course they noticed that Jerry and I sleep in separate rooms. They acted all strange and suggested we must be in a marriage of convenience or gay and just married to look good. They were quite bold and told us that a loving couple do not sleep in separate rooms.
It looks like your friends have some serious "boundary" issues.
If you're wondering how to spot a true friend an indication lies in the type of relationship shared. It should be all about respect and equality. "Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend." And my favourite quote on friendship is "I value the friend who for me finds time on his calendar, but I cherish the friend who for me does not consult his calendar."
I'll add this to the mix and suggestion box: seperate bathrooms.
Oh yes, that as well. You should have as many individual rooms as possible.
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