Swapping...fun or no? (children, affair, beautiful, regrets)

[Aptor hours]

Originally Posted by Donna in AZ

So it's surprising to you that some people click and others don't within a small pool of people in the lifestyle? Plus all 4 have to get along & be sexually attracted. It's hard enough for 1 person to meet another on that level much less 4.

I can't put my finger on it but there is something about the way you communicate that just annoys the heck out of me. I'm really not trying to be rude or flame but when I read responses like these ^ , there is a detachment & an air of passive aggression. Idk, maybe I'm reading too much into it. (?)

Your response to someone challenging you or stating a strong point of view is met with a confounding wall. How can you answer with "you're right "? Is that your way with coping with alternative points of view or refusing to get too deep into your motivations?

You say you don't keep up with the news or know much about how to handle yourself in social situations. Why is that? Why wouldn't you be interested in the world around you and what about interacting socially is difficult for you? Do you think you are somewhat disconnected?

If so, what's up with that?

I probably seem disconnected because I simply have no desire to challenge you or anybody else on this No reason to to argue about this at all in my mind Namaste.....

[D217]

Originally Posted by Aptor hours

I had to run topics through my head to keep the chatter going. Interesting why this happens....

YouTube - Uncomfortable Silence

[DrEarth]

Did you swap partners yet?

[Aptor hours]

Originally Posted by DrEarth

Did you swap partners yet?

Not going to be happening with this couple, but, I most certainly have many times in various situations in the past.

[D217]

Originally Posted by Aptor hours

Not going to be happening with this couple, but, I most certainly have many times in various situations in the past.

I admire people who have, or lack, the ....uh...whatever it takes to do this.

I would most likely fly into a jealous rage and commit some sort of crime..

[Aptor hours]

Originally Posted by D217

I admire people who have, or lack, the ....uh...whatever it takes to do this.

I would most likely fly into a jealous rage and commit some sort of crime..

Well I admire that you are honest enough to know that about yourself My husband is well taken care of though

[StaggerLee22]

How can you share your spouse?

Sick.

[Aptor hours]

Originally Posted by StaggerLee22

How can you share your spouse?

Sick.

Namaste

[Djuna]

Originally Posted by StaggerLee22

How can you share your spouse?

Sick.

Judge not lest ye be judged

[D217]

Originally Posted by Aptor hours

Well I admire that you are honest enough to know that about yourself

I do, I know myself all too well! hahaha