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there is a difference between being friends and lovers.. one relationship i had was being friends till we became best of friends.. oh well we both feel the same but it came to a point that we both loose being best of friends and didnt even get the chance to be lovers. Being friends will pull ya both back to step forward to a deeper relationship. This happened to me, (we might be better off as friends and not lovers) the thing is if ya love someone ya can just say and show what ya feel and then be friends as the relationship go along. But the problem comes in when the guy im falling for is not the perfect match for me seems he is not the guy for me since everyday arguments arises and love is gone. "Is there really a perfect match or soul mate that is" Or just me who has a problem.
I'd put it this way, for me my soul mate was the one I could not live without, the one who could not live without me. When you find THAT person, he's your soul mate
I've been through a lot of relationships but it didnt work out. And its been awhile I havent dated anyone since I've been experiencing the same Hi and Goodbyes. I wonder if there is actually a perfect match or a soul mate.
In your dreams, I suppose.
And of course, on those "must have" lists that many women prepare.
there is a difference between being friends and lovers.. one relationship i had was being friends till we became best of friends.. oh well we both feel the same but it came to a point that we both loose being best of friends and didnt even get the chance to be lovers. Being friends will pull ya both back to step forward to a deeper relationship. This happened to me, (we might be better off as friends and not lovers) the thing is if ya love someone ya can just say and show what ya feel and then be friends as the relationship go along. But the problem comes in when the guy im falling for is not the perfect match for me seems he is not the guy for me since everyday arguments arises and love is gone. "Is there really a perfect match or soul mate that is" Or just me who has a problem.
I believe in soulmates, but many of us will go through life without ever meeting them. Or in some cases, you'll meet them but the timing is all wrong. That was my situation. Having that someone within my grasp but the timing was wrong. Those are the ones that haunt you.
No one and nothing is perfect. We may all agree that no person is perfect. So why would we expect a perfect match?
As time passes, we find that a "perfect" partner, a soul mate, the perfect person for me is ... a figure of speech. This is not to say that some people are not better matched than others but there is little "perfection" in the world. The whole quest for a sole mate makes us think there is some magic at play - something that "happens", and then we can "live happily ever after". But in fact, a good relationship takes WORK. Much of the work is to learn to accept the imperfections of the other!
"Is there really a perfect match or soul mate that is" Or just me who has a problem.
There's no such thing as a perfect match, or soul mate. There are just those that you can fall in love with, and since you're both such an overall decent match you don't really have to try or otherwise "work" to keep things going. Or since there's that much love behind it, it's not work to you to change certain things to keep things going.
There is no such thing, and the sooner you realize this the sooner you can be at peace with yourself. Try to find the best person you can find, to be happy with and try not to be too picky. Remember you are not perfect, and your mate should not be expected to be perfect as well.
Wow, me thinks we have a case of a highjacked moniker!
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there is a difference between being friends and lovers.. one relationship i had was being friends till we became best of friends.. oh well we both feel the same but it came to a point that we both loose being best of friends and didnt even get the chance to be lovers. Being friends will pull ya both back to step forward to a deeper relationship. This happened to me, (we might be better off as friends and not lovers) the thing is if ya love someone ya can just say and show what ya feel and then be friends as the relationship go along. But the problem comes in when the guy im falling for is not the perfect match for me seems he is not the guy for me since everyday arguments arises and love is gone. 
"Is there really a perfect match or soul mate that is" Or just me who has a problem. 
