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Old 06-29-2009, 07:09 PM
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When you think about the attention they get from men in public and online isn't there always some guy they are KIND of seeing? When is a pretty women ever SINGLE? I guess that's why dating is so challenging and frustrating because it's one thing you can always count on from a dating site

"a response from a girl you are not attracted to"



So I see I now have to find a dating site or bookstore or cafe that is NOT WELL KNOWN because I think that's my only chance of succeeding in finding a girl I'm attracted to.
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:14 PM
 
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You REALLY are over analyzing this...you know that, right?

And by the same token, how long are handsome men really available?

By your logic, no one should ever be looking for anything except pretty or handsome. Yeah...that makes a LOT of sense.

No WONDER you are having troubles!!
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:19 PM
 
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On a scale of 1 to 10 with 7 being the highest, I'm a 6. I've been single my whole life. I hope that answers your question.
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:22 PM
 
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men and women are always single as long as there are "upgrades" available
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:22 PM
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You REALLY are over analyzing this...you know that, right?

And by the same token, how long are handsome men really available?

By your logic, no one should ever be looking for anything except pretty or handsome. Yeah...that makes a LOT of sense.

No WONDER you are having troubles!!


I didn't say it was no point it's just challenging. Like the girl who replied to me first, she probably has so many options that accidently I fell through the cracks and it's up to me to figure out a "new plan"
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:29 PM
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I see it just like a job, any women worth having is not going to be available too long and will be off the market.

One thing I do know is that "ugly women and fry cook jobs at mcdonald's" will always be available
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:34 PM
 
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I see it just like a job, any women worth having is not going to be available too long and will be off the market.

One thing I do know is that "ugly women and fry cook jobs at mcdonald's" will always be available
That is true. But there are quite a selection of great jobs that fall somewhere in between fry cooks, and CEO's. The same can be said for women.
Open your eyes, and your brain may follow.
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:45 PM
 
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Sheesh! It's so simple "nothing worth having comes easy!"
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:45 PM
 
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Why are you so obsessed with internet dating? You live in a large metropolis where there are plenty of opportunities to meet people in many different arenas. Maybe if you got out from in front of the screens (that would be the computer and the TV) and indulged in a normal social life you wouldn't have the need to analyze every online blink and wink. It's called, "having a life" and it works for most people.
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:46 PM
 
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When you think about the attention they get from men in public and online isn't there always some guy they are KIND of seeing? When is a pretty women ever SINGLE? I guess that's why dating is so challenging and frustrating because it's one thing you can always count on from a dating site

"a response from a girl you are not attracted to"



So I see I now have to find a dating site or bookstore or cafe that is NOT WELL KNOWN because I think that's my only chance of succeeding in finding a girl I'm attracted to.
Well, I don't have a magic answer to your problem but I have a magic answer to the response I get when a woman tells me she already is in a relationship. I tell her "your boyfriend/husband/etc. is a lucky man." That always brings a smile to their faces and makes me feel good...even if I walk away without the prize.

I think you need to work on how to accept rejection. It seems to bringing you down.

My opinion...of course.
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