Dont forget you're also dating the friends (women, college, Latin)

[SouthCity09]

of the person you are dating....so my question is what to do if you dont like the friends of a person you are dating or they dont like you and when is the right time to have her friends meet my friends.

[PassTheChocolate]

I'm confused, how could they not like each other if they haven't met?

[mrstewart]

Do you mean when should "his" friends meet "her" friends???

[SouthCity09]

Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate

I'm confused, how could they not like each other if they haven't met?

when should my friends meet her friends

and liking not liking part is...if i dont like her friends or they dont like me.

[Huckleberry3911948]

a mexican expression-- rough translation -- tell me who you run around with and i will tell you who you are.

[SouthCity09]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

a mexican expression-- rough translation -- tell me who you run around with and i will tell you who you are.

I run with a group of about 10 close friends who are recent college graduates or a currently in grad school.

[PassTheChocolate]

Originally Posted by SouthCity09

when should my friends meet her friends

and liking not liking part is...if i dont like her friends or they dont like me.

When should you meet her friends and what if they don't like you? And vice versa?

Meet when you both decide its time. If they don't like you or her, well you'd have to decide how much of a problem its going to be. If someone is just being a butt-head and just doesn't like you/her with no reason - I'd question why they are still your friend. Among rational adults, there may be differences that are easily overcome, but not all out hatred.

Hope that made sense.

[temptation001]

I NEVER mess with his friends. Ever. Even if they are total jerks, I won't ask him to run a ring where he is the referee. He can hang out with them as long as its not women we are talking about who seem to be of the skanky variety. In which case, I probably wont date him.

[NotARedneck]

Easy answer. Don't let him or her isolate you from your friends. This is a clear warning sign. If they don't get along, this may be their way of isolating you.

[Charles22]

That's why I never ever consider dating women who smoke. As soon as you do you have to hang out with all of her friends who smoke, too. They ALL smoke. Smokers stick together, just like non-smokers.