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I flew in from California back to VA last night. I don't know if you guys remember my post on my wife wanting to move back there.
Well, last monday I took a week off from work and I moved my whole family. I drove them all the way to Highland, CA, made it in 2 1/2 days of non stop driving.
Once there the wife was feeling great being back at home with her family/friends. I have always been a loner, antisocial and do not talk much so I put up by staying at her grandma's for a few days. I visited some of my former street racing friends and acquaintances.
So yesterday when she dropped me off at the airport the emotions were really strong, she was crying hysterically and didn't want me to leave. I told her to just drop me off and leave right away so the kids will not be affected by it.
About an hour later she texted me with this message:
"Now I realize I have always been in love with you, I love you so much I don't have words to describe this feeling. I am sorry for being so selfish and doing the things I have done that made you unhappy"
This made feel good knowing her true feelings and hopefuly in a few months I should reunite with them back in Cali.
Mr. C, I hope this is the beginning of a new chapter for you and your wife. My husband and I went through a rough time together about four years ago, and I wasn't sure what was going to happen. We hung in there, and we both worked on our issues and really tried to make it work, and now our relationship is the best it's ever been. I hope the best for both of you.
While you are apart, talk to your wife and children as much as you can. Several times a day. Send her letters, pictures or little gifts to tell her you are thinking of her and that you can't wait to be reunited. Keep the home fires burning.
Seems to me many women are uncomfortable if they are more than 50 miles from where they grew up. I've known more than a few careers that were deadheaded by the inability of a spouse to handle a relocation...or even trying. Good luck Mr. C.
My husband is going home to visit and also check on our house out in Mo Val in a couple of weeks .... he's going to die if it's that hot. I may not like humidity but...I do NOT miss that heat.
My husband is going home to visit and also check on our house out in Mo Val in a couple of weeks .... he's going to die if it's that hot. I may not like humidity but...I do NOT miss that heat.
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