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If it's someone I've been seeing for a while, I tell him how I feel.
But I try not to seem too psycho about it.
That's funy too!!!
You girls are cracking me up.
Who are you trying to fool.
It's like an acting program or something.
"If I say this...he will think this....If I do this I will be protrayed as this."
Get over it. Us guys are much more simple than you think.
Show some leg and we are there. All the added B.S. is something you incorporated into the equation that means nothing to us. If it deals with food, sports or sex we are there. Anything else is stuff that goes over our heads. Keep that in mind. K?
Here's a clue for the ladies.....if the guy you are persuing keeps making time for you, I think he's into you also and thus it would be ok to let him know that you like him.....2009, its ok for females to make the first move
I have been hit on so many times and later I am thinking about my meeting with a girl and I think..."I think she wanted me to...?" Why didn't I pick that up?!
Would you tell someone you liked and wanted to persue a relationship with, exactly how you feel about them, or continue to not say anything and hope they catch the clues or say something first.
For a woman is that too bold, or just playing games?
If I liked a guy and wished to possibly persure a relationship with him I would come right out and tell him so. Why beat around the bush and not say anything.Being honest and upfront with a guy in my opinion is not playing games which I don't like anyway.Who knows he may feel the very same about you and just be afraid to come right out and say something first.
Would you tell someone you liked and wanted to persue a relationship with, exactly how you feel about them, or continue to not say anything and hope they catch the clues or say something first.
For a woman is that too bold, or just playing games?
Sitting around hoping they figure out how you feel can backfire. I knew a girl who was interested in me, but I only found out later on when she told me. But before that, I always got mixed signals, which is why I didn't really pursue her. She may have thought she was being obvious, but for us men, it comes across as too subtle. It doesn't mean she has to make the first move or spill her guts to him. But playing games, pretending you're not interested when you really are, and waiting for him to pursue you...that's just dumb. While you're doing that, he may meet someone else who doesn't leave him wondering.
"If I say this...he will think this....If I do this I will be protrayed as this."
Get over it. Us guys are much more simple than you think.
Show some leg and we are there. All the added B.S. is something you incorporated into the equation that means nothing to us. If it deals with food, sports or sex we are there. Anything else is stuff that goes over our heads. Keep that in mind. K?
By not trying to seem too psycho I mean that I don't bombard a guy with a ton of phone calls per day and start acting all clingy and overjealous. I just tell him how I feel. I thought it was pretty straight forward, and I'm not sure how you get that it is "added BS".
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