When you ask for what you want, you may just get it.
I'm a little late on updating, but I met a man from Connecticut who travels here often. We've gone out a few times and we get along really well. He is a total and complete gentleman, retired early, with a great sense of humor and a very kind nature. He has lots of free time, loves to travel and gives a great deal back to the community.
He seems almost too good to be true. We've been on 6 dates, had wonderful dinners (and a lunch or two) and spent hours talking in person and on the phone. I've been to his hotel room, more than once, shared a few glasses of wine over great conversation. He has yet to put the moves on me.
We have kissed briefly, but that's it.
I'm not complaining. I LOVE it! I'm not easy, but I don't have x amount of dates rules either. Still, I have never been in a situation, after even 3 dates, where a man hasn't at least tried. He clearly has the desire by kissing me (and the way he kisses me), but he keeps his hands to himself. It's usually when we end the date.
So, while I respect him for it, I'm shaking my head. I'm not immune to the shallow thinking of most these days,
especially on that site. Most men would have moved on by now; his tastes are quite upscale. And I'd venture to say he can have just about any woman he wants, in multiple positions, after ONE date.
Again, I'm not complaining. I'm pleasantly surprised. Giggly actually. I really enjoy being with him.
Then again, he could be a serial killer who wants to turn me into a leather jacket, with my luck.
"It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again."
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