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Old 07-05-2009, 01:15 PM
 
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I am too far gone, in love too soon (about 2 months together) , and too deep. How can I slow this down? I am really hooked, help!
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Old 07-05-2009, 01:17 PM
 
Location: southern california
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practice fairness to all concerned including yourself. this will have the effect of hitting the emergency brakes on a train.
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Old 07-05-2009, 01:23 PM
 
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practice fairness to all concerned including yourself. this will have the effect of hitting the emergency brakes on a train.
huh? hitting the emergency break, does that slam the train stopped or is it a gentle slow down? thank-you 4 the response.
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Old 07-05-2009, 01:23 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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Go along with your feelings, ride it out and realize that in the early stages of a romance, what you have is not true love but a crush aka sexual infatuation. And don't do anything serious about the relationship, like getting married, until you have been a couple for several years.

But why do you feel the need to resist your crush feelings anyway? Is there anything about him that you are worried about or dislike? Why not just enjoy his company but just not plan to marry him?
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Old 07-05-2009, 01:30 PM
 
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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Awe shucks you dont want any help.....you're drowning and lovin it too

Be happy n good luck
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Old 07-05-2009, 01:30 PM
 
Location: southern california
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huh? hitting the emergency break, does that slam the train stopped or is it a gentle slow down? thank-you 4 the response.
per the OP the pull in is not gentle neither will be the pull out. but the simple act of practicing fairness thru boundaries is always gentle and will break the hold of an anaconda in a jiffy.
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Old 07-05-2009, 02:02 PM
 
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Go along with your feelings, ride it out and realize that in the early stages of a romance, what you have is not true love but a crush aka sexual infatuation. And don't do anything serious about the relationship, like getting married, until you have been a couple for several years.

But why do you feel the need to resist your crush feelings anyway? Is there anything about him that you are worried about or dislike? Why not just enjoy his company but just not plan to marry him?
I am just getting to know him and I am starting to think I was blind. I thought becasue he came from a religious backround and was religious at one time himself that he was a "good " person. I thought he was good for other reasons, too and then I found something out (will start a new thread) that is inconsistant with being a "good" person.
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Old 07-05-2009, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Is this the same jackass who stole his roommate's girlfriend?
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Old 07-05-2009, 02:27 PM
 
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Is this the same jackass who stole his roommate's girlfriend?
yes twinkle
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Old 07-05-2009, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Well, guard yourself then and BOLO.
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