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One day, you may in a situation where your loved one has surgery and is unable - and after that advice, when it happens. . . your pee pee might fall off.
yeah im sure. honestly the op was kinda stupid for gettin married anyway but i guess them old people back then didnt know no better. thankfully today we can have sex whenever we want with whoever he mite as well get with the times.
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OP: You said you have no more sex and you asked a question about what you should do about it. Well I say get in touch with yourself literally and figuratively. Sex is completely overrated because you are dependent on another person for it and when it stinks it ruins your whole day. When you don't get any it ruins your whole life (it seems). If you practice on your own then you aren't so dependent on anyone anymore. The sun will shine and life will begin to be wonderful again.
Yes, it is sad that some people's lives are ruled by sex. That seems like a kind of prison, not a wonderful thing.
Whats more important to you? Your wife, your bond or sex? I know its hard in the hyper in your face sex is everything world of today but try to ignore all that and just figure it out for yourself. Generations of human mammals have done without getting as much as they want from wherever they want. If you choose that, its ok.
Whats more important to you? Your wife, your bond or sex? I know its hard in the hyper in your face sex is everything world of today but try to ignore all that and just figure it out for yourself. Generations of human mammals have done without getting as much as they want from wherever they want. If you choose that, its ok.
OP sounds like a spoiled brat. The wife had recent surgery and he's already whining. Sorry, but this is one of the worst things I've read here. What about marital vows, in sickness and in health? The guy is married in his 50s and this is something he can't handle? Bad things can and do happen, that's real life. Just not mature- maybe concentrate on helping wife get better and what he could be doing for her.
I'm totally confused about what to do here. I still love my wife but our sex life had came to an abrupt end after her recent surgery. We tried a couple of times but I know she is in pain so the though of having sex with her totally turns me off and now I can't nolonger find her sexually attractive.
This is not her fault. It's just bad luck that she got sick. She want to be a good wife and I don't want to abandon her. But I feel deprived sexually. What shoudl I do?
By the way, we're both in our early fifties.
Stock up on hand lotion and start exercising the hand you plan to use. You were darn lucky to be getting sex into your fifties, most married couples all but end it by the time they are 40.
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