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Old 07-13-2009, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Society is all screwed up...age of consent is 16. A 16 year older can
have had literally 100s of girls if he/she started at 12...hello...

This is not the 60s,70s,80s, or 90s... kids learn to explore open
mouth kissing from the TV set at age 3. Yall need to get real...

If you want purity in ya kids, then as a group do something
about TV shows. Imagine your own self at 16 with the constant
sexual suggestiveness all around you...

Kids now start sexual exploration at 12 or younger... by 16 years
it really isn't a big deal... no way you gonna see all that open
mouth kissing on big screens in slow motion since you were
knee-high to an ant and NOT try it just to see what it's like.

Her boy could have lost his virginity at 10 and no one would be
surprise. Kids have way more experience now then their
parents total sexual life and that's just the way it is now.

Talk about the women to make yourselves feel better but that
woman ain't the bigger problem. What you parents have said yes,
to what was being seen by your children whole life, is.
i don't know if you're just quoting me because I was the last person who posted or you didn't read the thread. I never painted the image of him as a innocent kid sitting in his room eating cereal and wearing feetie pj's. I said that if I had to guess he made a sexual advance at the lady and she took him up on it. I also said that I sided with the father because in a few years this kid will be out on his own...soooo I really don't know why you keep responding to my posts like I'm in denial or something.

However, as a woman in my late 20's I don't see how a grown woman would find the concept of having sex with a high school boy appealing - hell I didn't think it was appealing to have sex with high school boys when I was in high school.
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Northwest
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i don't know if you're just quoting me because I was the last person who posted or you didn't read the thread. I never painted the image of him as a innocent kid sitting in his room eating cereal and wearing feetie pj's. I said that if I had to guess he made a sexual advance at the lady and she took him up on it. I also said that I sided with the father because in a few years this kid will be out on his own...soooo I really don't know why you keep responding to my posts like I'm in denial or something.

However, as a woman in my late 20's I don't see how a grown woman would find the concept of having sex with a high school boy appealing - hell I didn't think it was appealing to have sex with high school boys when I was in high school.
Quoting you? where... did you read my statements through the whole thread? Oh I see you didn't... ok I'm outta
here. I thought you were serious.
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:43 PM
 
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Originally Posted by RFSilver View Post
They want to believe the 16 year older didn't have any swave to him.
That's how its always been...guys hear of someone easy they go
after that person. Ignore what the kids are saying and just go
believing what they want. Then its their kid and their wringing their
hands and crying why why why...

Hello people! A 16 year old guy is like a 25-30 year old guy from the 70s
as to sexual experience these days. He's probably been at it since
10. Seen open mouth kissing since 3 and been practicing since 5.
Get real please... that's why the kids don't say nothing because
the grown ups won't even listen. They know it all until it happens
to their kid... man.
yeah i wouldn't go that far
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:45 PM
 
Location: Northwest
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yeah i wouldn't go that far
how old are you... meaning are you under 21... I am and I would.
But then I'm only talking about My generation... nobody elses... so I
think I could speak for the 16 year older.

Yall can believe what you want though. I'm outta here and should stick
with threads wanting real life experience talking.
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Quoting you? where... did you read my statements through the whole thread?
Did you read mine? Like I said I don't know if you're directly responding to my statements or they're just showing up that way because I'm the last person that posted but I said several pages ago that the kid is quite braggadocios about his sexual abilities.
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:48 PM
 
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how old are you... meaning are you under 21... I am and I would.
I'm 20 and I wasn't having sex at 10 and as far as i know neither were my boys i think the first one to even get brain was the summer between 8-9 grade maybe the girls in my neighborhood just weren't as freidnly as yours lol
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:51 PM
 
Location: Northwest
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I'm 20 and I wasn't having sex at 10 and as far as i know neither were my boys i think the first one to even get brain was the summer between 8-9 grade maybe the girls in my neighborhood just weren't as freidnly as yours lol
Then you can only talk about your experience. Just like me. Now
what does statistics tell you... are kids losing their virginity at 10?

What does the TV shows tell you. Kids I know were and thats real
but did anyone believe me? Nope. At least my parents did and they
talked to all us kids. Did my friends parents believe me? Nope...

Nuff said and just keep thinking what I'm saying is extreme.
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:54 PM
 
Location: Northwest
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Did you read mine? Like I said I don't know if you're directly responding to my statements or they're just showing up that way because I'm the last person that posted but I said several pages ago that the kid is quite braggadocios about his sexual abilities.
I'm outta here because you are now wanting to fight about
a real situation I've lived through. It's been enlightening.

(Thanks to the person who gave me a rep point. I thought
we were telling the truth here and I'm on an internal
mission to be truthful in order to help people. Hope my
truth helped someone.)
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Old 07-13-2009, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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I'm outta here because you are now wanting to fight about
a real situation I've lived through. It's been enlightening.
No one is fighting with you - I don't even know what real situation you're talking about since most of your post was talking about society and television.
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Old 07-13-2009, 06:25 PM
 
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I haven't made it past page two but my idea is that teens are a bit isolated from the real world. They get a ton of talk about birth control and prevention. They are very much afraid of getting pregnant. I think that fear may subside later and risks are set aside for personal (lucky) experience of the older person involved. I think there are a lot more risks with having sex with someone older.

For someone to being having kids, by accident or not, with someone who is still a kid, how are they going to look at their own kids or their kids friends as they grow older? If they do not have sexual restraint at 28 would they at 44? If they are so intrigued by having sex with someone so young at 28, how much more intriguing would it be at 44?
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