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Old 07-13-2009, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Not since my teenage days. I don't chase anyone. I find it pretty pathetic for a man to chase a woman who clearly has no interest in him, and yes, I was a pathetic teenager.
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Old 07-13-2009, 02:14 PM
 
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I know lots of guys that act like chasing women is A MUST when you're single.
It's as if chasing women is the only reason for being sngle.


What do you guys( and nosey gals) think about this?



I am very fond of (slender and tall)women but I DO NOT chase them, never have never will.
Not me.
For starters, I'm serial monogamist....just not a playa.
Second, if a gal isn't interested in me then that's fine, I don't lose any sleep over it and move on.
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Old 07-13-2009, 02:21 PM
 
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I know lots of guys that act like chasing women is A MUST when you're single.
It's as if chasing women is the only reason for being sngle.


What do you guys( and nosey gals) think about this?



I am very fond of (slender and tall)women but I DO NOT chase them, never have never will.
I am a one woman at a time guy plus if a gal isn't interested then I move on.
So basically, no.
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Old 07-13-2009, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Hey,


Happy Summer!
Happy Summer Ron! Tag, your it!
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Old 07-13-2009, 06:49 PM
 
Location: Fiji
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When I was single, I didn't chase after women. In fact, my wife chased after me, stalked me, and I gave in to her eventually
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Old 07-13-2009, 07:29 PM
 
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I have not reached out to a girl for affection in over 16 years. Every girl I've ever been interested in was already taken. I must include that I am very introverted and got out of the habit/gave up - a combination. It started when I was about 23
and I wasn't aware of it at the time; I had become an observer instead of a participant. Time has proven it's much easier to reach for the hand lotion and click into my C-drive. You could say it's cheaper than dating and raising a family. But you'll probably instead say it's no fun being lonely. I might counter that introverts don't always feel lonely. Plus, I don't want to be bossed around.

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Old 07-14-2009, 09:04 AM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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My boyfriend isn't a skirt chaser. And that's just one of the many things that impressed me about him.
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Old 07-14-2009, 09:17 AM
 
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sounds good. maybe there's hope for me
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Old 07-14-2009, 09:53 AM
 
Location: FL
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Chasing women is stupid and a waste of time, that is unless your thing is banging about 400 of them before getting aids. I usually let women come to me first to show their interest, then I reciprocate because I know I'm not wasting my time (usually, but it has backfired). At any given time I have ten other higher importance things I'm working on rather than waste time playing 8th grader mind games.
That is my approach as well. I've never chased. Seems like a waste of time. However, I will look for visual cues that she is open and maybe friendly and at the appropriate time I will strike up a conversation. Where it goes from there is depends upon how the woman acts towards me.
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Old 07-14-2009, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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I know lots of guys that act like chasing women is A MUST when you're single.
It's as if chasing women is the only reason for being sngle.


What do you guys( and nosey gals) think about this?



I am very fond of (slender and tall)women but I DO NOT chase them, never have never will.

I hated chasing after women when I was young. I wanted to get drunk with my friends and have some crazy drunken fun. We excelled at doing just that. If I met a women by mistake or chance more that better. To meet some one by chance is like s stab in the dark.
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