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Originally Posted by Chowhound
I was 18 yrs old. I didn't sleep well, lost weight. It was pretty rough. I think on some level I shut down a bit. Maybe just being aware of that "shut down" feeling would help to "un-shutdown."
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I think that's why it seems to some people that I deal really well with break-ups, but in truth once I make up my mind not to be with someone, I can't really put it in reverse. Same thing goes if I am betrayed. They are rarely around long enough to see the affects of my "shutdown", because I'd prefer to not ever see their face again if I have a choice.