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My facts are also Dated October 30, 2009, so they are very current.
I just wonder if Mr. Pokemon has ever been divorced or been involved in a divorce of any kind and has more than just some dude who knows some dude who's brother's uncle's cousin got screwed in a divorce because he had to pay child support for his own kids..
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My anecdotes mostly include men that didn't want the responsibility of being primary care takers without their wives/women (if y'all are still talking about kids). My father didn't want it. He admitted it. My step-father didn't want it IRT his kids. My ex-bf didn't want it. He paid 300/mo in child support, but lost interest in his kid around the age of 2.
OK....I don't think I was responding to you, but that's your experience. But I'll tell you this - I don't know one guy who has been through divorce/custody who doesn't feel they they've been screwed royally. And I've done my research........It's not just me talking to some dude here and there.
My facts are also Dated October 30, 2009, so they are very current.
I just wonder if Mr. Pokemon has ever been divorced or been involved in a divorce of any kind and has more than just some dude who knows some dude who's brother's uncle's cousin got screwed in a divorce because he had to pay child support for his own kids..
Yawn.......bring emotion into this. I make my assertions and arguments emotionally, but I am not attempting to drag you personally into something. So I consider the source and the mental state of that source, and I move on.
I don't care to be involved in a divorce, which is why I have studied up on the subject. I make decisions based on research and preparation, and I determine the probability, the likelihood, of a positive outcome. Then I make moves accordingly.
I have never assailed child support. Have I? What I assail is the unfair allocation of parenting time and resources.
Never said that. But why should she get the kids and support from him? She's the one who went out and did another guy. Of course he tried to get them. He didn't get them.
The fact she did someone has nothing to do with paying child support for your kids. ...lol.
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OK....I don't think I was responding to you, but that's your experience. But I'll tell you this - I don't know one guy who has been through divorce/custody who doesn't feel they they've been screwed royally. And I've done my research........It's not just me talking to some dude here and there.
What research? What experience of your own? It's all one-sided second hand crap from some guys you know. This is too funny.
The fact she did someone has nothing to do with paying child support for your kids. ...lol.
It should affect the way the marriage was dissolved, the custody of the kids, and the support arrangement. It is her fault the marriage is over. Why should she come out better off?
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What research? What experience of your own? It's all one-sided second hand crap from some guys you know. This is too funny.
And that would be another assumption where you'd be wrong again.
And the rest of your posts are all over the map - you've researched it. Oh, please.
[quote=Lucario;11416936]Yawn.......bring emotion into this. I make my assertions and arguments emotionally, but I am not attempting to drag you personally into something. So I consider the source and the mental state of that source, and I move on. quote]
SO which is it pokemon? Is it all and only about the money as you first stated or emotional now? Which is it? Decisions based on emotions or factual research?
You know, I think this thread has been hijacked enough about your crusade and you should probably start one of your own. Better yet look up and dig up about 50 threads on this very tired, redundant subject.
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but that's your experience. But I'll tell you this - I don't know one guy who has been through divorce/custody who doesn't feel they they've been screwed royally. And I've done my research........It's not just me talking to some dude here and there.
I'm sure everybody in divorce feels they get screwed royally; regardless of gender. Either way, I realize our anecdotes are not research.
If you post on a public board, you are addressing the members of this forum.
You didn't get my meaning.......It seemed as if you had responded to something I wrote, inferring anyway that I had aimed it at you. I hadn't. That's all.
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I'm sure everybody in divorce feels they get screwed royally; regardless of gender. Either way, I realize our anecdotes are not research.
Could be. I agree that anecdotes are not research as well.
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...lol.
