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Old 07-27-2009, 10:45 AM
 
Location: Omaha
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Not in my book. If men who haven't had sex can't be virgins, then what are they?
Miserable...I would guess.

I know I would be if I had to walk around all day with a chub wanting to hump anything that moved.
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Old 07-27-2009, 10:46 AM
 
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Nothing wrong at all , you do what feels right for YOU . Not according to what your culture, peers, etc say. After all, you are the one who has to live with you. Mind you, I 'm somewhat unconventional myself.
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Old 07-27-2009, 10:57 AM
 
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Alright Im 17 and a half years old and Im still a virgin, but it seems like by the time most teens are 14 or 15 they've already had sex. I feel some what weird that Im still a virgin and Im almost 18. What do other people think about this?
It's not a weird or bad thing AT ALL!!!!! Wait!!!! Don't just have sex b/c you think you should (b/c I promise you that it will SUCK). Wait until you are ready! For some people that age is younger than others (and for some, they just think they're ready, and lose it too young and regret it). I personally lost my V-card WAY, WAY, WAY too young, and it's something I definitely wish I would have waited for.
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Old 07-27-2009, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Maine
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Alright Im 17 and a half years old and Im still a virgin, but it seems like by the time most teens are 14 or 15 they've already had sex. I feel some what weird that Im still a virgin and Im almost 18. What do other people think about this?
I lost my virginity at 15 to a total loser and proceeded to sleep with quite a few other guys trying to find the "right one". Now I just wish I had waited for the right one to have sex with too. Once you do it you can't go back, so don't rush it. Enjoy your virginity and wait for the right person!
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Old 07-27-2009, 01:42 PM
 
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Alright Im 17 and a half years old and Im still a virgin, but it seems like by the time most teens are 14 or 15 they've already had sex. I feel some what weird that Im still a virgin and Im almost 18. What do other people think about this?
Man, I'll tell ya somethin' that I've learned.

Simply put: Sex is far more meaningful (and enjoyable) when you're with someone you truly care about.

Bro, ya got plenty of time.. last thing ya want is to get with a chick that you really don't know and end up gettin' in trouble for it.

Thing is, be careful.. When I think of 14 or 15 year olds having sex, I picture those same people 20 years later living in run-down trailers, smoking 3 packs a day, a beer in one hand and a twinkie in the other.

18 isn't bad, but to be honest, I'd wait until ya find the right person.. to hell with what everyone else says.
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Old 07-27-2009, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Bon Temps
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I was never sold on the waiting for marriage thing.... my bigges problem was I as a NERD and nobody asked me out or those who did, were too nerdy for even me. That being said, my status changed when I was 17.
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:22 AM
 
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Not in my book. If men who haven't had sex can't be virgins, then what are they?
Guys who haven't had sex. Duh!
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Old 07-31-2009, 09:26 AM
 
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Since when? When I was still in high school that was the word used for anybody who didn't have sex yet.
Yeah and the "N" word was for a certain race too.

If you find a guy who has something special for the first time let me know. Otherwise, only the young girls do.
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Old 07-31-2009, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Norwood, MN
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Alright Im 17 and a half years old and Im still a virgin, but it seems like by the time most teens are 14 or 15 they've already had sex. I feel some what weird that Im still a virgin and Im almost 18. What do other people think about this?
You should be proud that you have self-discipline and respect for yourself. I was a virgin until I was 27, waiting a while is a good thing.
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