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Old 07-26-2009, 11:00 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Too often we are here discussing the negatives (turnoffs, dealbreakers, etc.) so I wanted to create a positive thread.

What are some of the immediate TURN ONS you find in a potential mate?

Some of mine:

1. Nice body (especially fit/firm thighs and bottom)
2. Long hair
3. Evenly tanned, smooth tattoo and pimple free skin (shoulders, back, face)
4. Smile. Big hearty smile.
5. Great open personality
6. Earthy - loves nature, animals, etc. and sees beauty in them
7. Artsy - she appreciates the arts and is knowledgeble of dance, painting, music, etc.
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Old 07-26-2009, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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When he is wearing my favorite cologne, and he has that *twinkle* in his eye!
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Old 07-26-2009, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Long dark hair

Full lips

Playful personality, doesn't take herself too seriously.

Soft and curvy

Someone who is smart, but has gained her knowledge by life experiences, not a classroom.
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Old 07-26-2009, 11:42 AM
 
Location: here.
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jessica alba major turn on

http://thetrawbros.files.wordpress.com/2007/12/jessica-alba-bikini-07.jpg (broken link)
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Old 07-26-2009, 11:50 AM
 
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I'll focus on personality...Positive, half-full mentality and the ability to brush off disappointment...
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Old 07-26-2009, 11:51 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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*Good skin

*Certain perfumes

*Nice face / body

*sexy skirts

*life in order, but not plain, also a wild side

*fun to be around

*good sense of humour

*positivity
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Old 07-26-2009, 11:54 AM
 
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I'm turned on by certain qualities in a man's voice. hard to articulate but I know it when I hear it.
Also love a receding hairline. Really!
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Old 07-26-2009, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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jessica alba major turn on
Where is the meat? Looks like a skinny, skeleton a$$ to me.. lol...

Another turn on would have to be when my husband comes waking me up from a nap, dressed in his Police outfit! Oh yeah!!!
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Old 07-26-2009, 02:48 PM
 
Location: lala land
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1. Sense of humor: the more I talk to guys. The more I realize how important this is. Serious guys bore me.

2. Brains: doesn't have to be Einstein. Just interested in learning, reading, etc.

3. Purpose: A spiritual purpose, or some other thing that brings meaning to their life.

4. Compassion: This is an undervalued trait. But very important from my experience.

5. Exploring Mindset: Likes to travel, go out in nature, try new things.
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Old 07-26-2009, 02:49 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Where is the meat? Looks like a skinny, skeleton a$$ to me.. lol...

Another turn on would have to be when my husband comes waking me up from a nap, dressed in his Police outfit! Oh yeah!!!
F ing right.

I don't do bones my friend.

Likes me some junk in the trunk.
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