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Confidence is attractive, but so is someone being a little vulnerable, as well. As long as confidence does not cross the line into pompous/cocky (while having a vulnerability). . that's sexy to me.
As a never-married man in his mid-30s who constantly gets told he looks like he's in his 20s or early 30s, I myself am aware of what women are within and beyond my league. I tend not to aim too high if you catch my drift. So, when I read/hear/see men as this superintendent act this way... I really cannot understand.
Thanks for not being a gross, creepy guy Sprawling_Homeowner!!! You rock!!!!
For me, getting in shape etc has been a reminder of a very simple fact of life... women like men they enjoy looking at.
Sometimes, it seems men think only men do that.
That is such a great point!!! It's not like we expect perfection (or I don't, but I suppose I can't and shouldn't speak for all women), just a little bit of effort! I put a lot of effort into maintaining my body and looks, and I'm not even a make-up and hair done and fashion kind of gal, so I want a guy who respects his body and makes an effort to look good for me too!!! Is that too much to ask? lol
We can say the same thing about women though its the ones usually in their 20's
As a woman in her 20s, I completely disagree. I have NEVER demanded or even expected perfection in ANY man I've been with...EVER. You can't expect perfection in any person, or you're setting yourself up for disappointment. I don't want a perfect guy (although in my eyes, my guy is perfect, at least for me), I just don't want a nasty, fat, creepy old man trying to get in my pants at work! That's not too much to ask for is it?
As a woman in her 20s, I completely disagree. I have NEVER demanded or even expected perfection in ANY man I've been with...EVER. You can't expect perfection in any person, or you're setting yourself up for disappointment. I don't want a perfect guy (although in my eyes, my guy is perfect, at least for me), I just don't want a nasty, fat, creepy old man trying to get in my pants at work! That's not too much to ask for is it?
Well then your one of the good ones,most halfway decent looking women wants close to perfection especially physically..
I blame Men though well hit on almsot anything so we overinflate the egos of even some mediocre lookign women who are sitting waiting for pretty boys to approach them..
Well then your one of the good ones,most halfway decent looking women wants close to perfection..
I blame Men though well hit on almsot anything so we overinflate the egos of even some mediocre lookign women who are sitting waiting for pretty boys to approach them..
I'm about the same age as you, eat right, exercise and would say I'm in better shape than most guys my age. People regularly tell me I look younger. But one thing I've learned is to be forgiving of how a woman looks. I know how hard it is to stay in shape after a certain age. While I'd like to be with someone who's serious about health and fitness, I don't expect them to be just like me. There's nothing wrong with a little extra.
Im the same way i dont mind a little extra weight,but do u think most women are as forgiving??
Im 5'8 165 skinny not in great peak shape but in pretty decent shape for beign almost 30 in decent but in this area unles your roided out you dont get many looks
Im 5'8 165 skinny not in great peak shape but in pretty decent shape for beign almost 30 in decent but in this area unles your roided out you dont get many looks
Maybe it isn't just your looks. Have you thought about that?
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