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Hey, simple....Don't ask the question if you don't want the answer.
By the way, my name is SMP. I don't know who you think I am. But I am not whoever it is that you named.
That first chunk was for the poster before you.
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Originally Posted by supermanpansy
Will I sugar coat the answers for you? Not hardly..
Now that I know a little more. .Ok, I admit, I might have been a little off. However, you might have blown it with the guy that you like. Sometimes people might agree to be exclusive, but they are testing you to see if you want to. I apologize if I came of a little blunt. Maybe I didn't read correctly. But your right, if someone doesn't want to commit to you, then they are probably not the right person for you.
When it is; it just is. Both people know it. Nobody's worth convincing to how special we are. If they don't see it, that's their loss.
Maybe it was a blessing that he seen you. Now maybe "you" can now find the right person.
Good luck to you and Im sorry if I came of a bit blunt. I admit, I did not interpret what you said correctly..
Good luck,
SMP
Yeah, that's the problem. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. In some ways I hate having to feel this way because if I had dated him and he was wary it would be easy to just let it drop. The guy I was on the fence about and introduced him to, I dropped for not being a suitable match. It took about a week to move on. But, since I got attached to him as a friend it made hanging out with him romantically way more intense. I guess it's like 6 months of dating condensed into six weeks.
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Originally Posted by Aylalou
You were honest and didn't play games. He may be hurt. If he hasn't called you, I hope you call him. Give it some time to lick his wounds.
I'd like to do that. I'm thinking maybe I should give it a week but who knows.
Well, as far as I've seen he isn't seeing anyone else. He has said that he isn't and I haven't seen him. But, I've been straightforward and honest with him about my feelings. I just don't want to sit on the bench while he works on his stuff (career change, jaded about relationships etc.). I'll date him but I wouldn't close the door to dating other guys too. I'm not having sex with the other guys though. That's too much excitement for me! lol
If you really like the "6-weeker", you need to call him first. This is the situation when you need to reach out, not him.
If I was dating someone and found out they were dating someone else it would be over. It sounds to me like you dont know what you want or are just trying to keep things ready for an upgrade. Either way not good imo.
You wouldn't steer me wrong on this would ya'?? How much time would you recommend?
Tomorrow is as good of a time as any. I personally don't like guessing games or drama. We are all adults here. If you want to continue dating him, call him and let him know how you feel. If he is angry about what happened, at least you have a right to know that.
If you don't care that much and you have other options, it's one thing, but if you want to pursue him, you need to reach out. If I was him, I wouldn't call either. Although technically you did nothing wrong, you would feel bummed out too if you saw him on a date with another girl. Wouldn't you?
Yeah, but I'm the flip side of his introverted personality. I wouldn't sulk I'd be on the phone the next day with something to say! LMAO! Part of the reason we got together is I told him flat out that I thought he was sexy and a bunch of other things! I don't have much of a filter when I like someone. I'm like supermanpansy. It doesn't take all day to recognize sunshine! Meaning, it shouldn't take forever to know. If I like you I like you and I'm going full out and letting you know.
Yeah, but I'm the flip side of his introverted personality. I wouldn't sulk I'd be on the phone the next day with something to say! LMAO! Part of the reason we got together is I told him flat out that I thought he was sexy and a bunch of other things! I don't have much of a filter when I like someone. I'm like supermanpansy. It doesn't take all day to recognize sunshine! Meaning, if I like you I like you and I'm going full out and letting you know.
Well, you know better then me what kind of person he is, I'm just saying what I would do in this situation. I just like to talk things out and not let anything build up.
By the way, I'm just like you.
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