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Old 08-14-2009, 06:21 PM
 
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I have been googling two guys I dated years ago. I am a single, tall dark skin black women. I have noticed(via internet) these two men are happily married and I am STILL single. The first guy I dated back in the late 90s. He was a real player then. I fell in love and missed out on a GOOD man. I later cut him lose, although he still called my job and left messages on WEEKENDS and met a new guy. This NEW guy got me pregnant and wouldn't marry me. He is now happily married to SOMEONE else. I am STILL single, unemployed and considering why I continue to be dumped..... I pray for strenghth to go on each day.
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:30 PM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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I have been googling two guys
There's your problem.
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:32 PM
 
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What do you mean? I feel like a lousy and these bums are MARRIED!
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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You pick yourself up, and move on. As time goes by, you try to BETTER yourself. Not look back, and cry over spilled milk. (or spoiled milk)
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:36 PM
 
Location: USA
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Stop googling your exes. Find a job, stop Googling your exes, get a hobby, drown your computer in the bathtub, find a job. . good grief woman, stop living in the past. Worry about bettering yourself.
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:37 PM
 
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What do you mean? I feel like a lousy and these bums are MARRIED!
They obviously weren't the ones for you.
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:40 PM
 
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Thankx for the advice. I have suffered so much in my life. I lost my MOM 7 years ago and feel like life isn't worth the effort. I have been the fool on so many occasions not just with men...employers too. I am at the end of my rope with the new depression looming....
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:41 PM
 
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Then who is the ONE for for me? SHREK! I don't even engage in online dating or go out to meet guys anymore. Ever since grade school I was teased and abused by guys I liked...
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:42 PM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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I lost a parent 4 years ago. There isn't anything you can do about it, though. There is SO much else to live for than to be depressed all the time over things you can't change. Fix those you can.
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Old 08-14-2009, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Thankx for the advice. I have suffered so much in my life. I lost my MOM 7 years ago and feel like life isn't worth the effort. I have been the fool on so many occasions not just with men...employers too. I am at the end of my rope with the new depression looming....
I`m sorry you feel so depressed.
Losing a Mother cannot be an easy thing, but life does go on, ya` know?
It sounds like you are down on your luck, but that is still no reason to give up.
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