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Eh... sometimes it's nice, but sometimes if I don't take charge, stuff doesn't get done
My fiancee is great and everything....but he's also a slacker who can't make up his own damn mind.
ugh! i know what you mean. men have been spoiled imo...
men used to know how to woo and coax and romance a woman (sounds like i am 100 yrs old), but since so many women just throw themselves at men, they dont ever need those skills and dont bother to learn them.
I am actually a little bit of a control freak. I am so afraid of becoming dependent on a man that I swing the exact opposite direction and don't let anyone do anything for me. Men don't seem to like that.
How are you open about it? Do you tell him or send messages subliminally?
Well - in certain situations I just tell him that I want him to make a decision and take charge.
I never say degrading things like: "be a man for once", but more like: "decision is yours on this one".
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