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Old 08-14-2009, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Fort Bend County, TX/USA/Mississauga, ON/Canada
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a man to take charge? In your honest opinion, ladies...what do you think?
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:06 PM
 
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i cant speak for all women, but i would say for me YES
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Fort Bend County, TX/USA/Mississauga, ON/Canada
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i cant speak for all women, but i would say for me YES
me too...
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:09 PM
 
Location: South FL
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a man to take charge? In your honest opinion, ladies...what do you think?
Not secretly, I want a man to take charge and I am open about it.
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Fort Bend County, TX/USA/Mississauga, ON/Canada
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Not secretly, I want a man to take charge and I am open about it.
How are you open about it? Do you tell him or send messages subliminally?
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Eh... sometimes it's nice, but sometimes if I don't take charge, stuff doesn't get done

My fiancee is great and everything....but he's also a slacker who can't make up his own damn mind.
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:14 PM
 
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Eh... sometimes it's nice, but sometimes if I don't take charge, stuff doesn't get done

My fiancee is great and everything....but he's also a slacker who can't make up his own damn mind.
ugh! i know what you mean. men have been spoiled imo...
men used to know how to woo and coax and romance a woman (sounds like i am 100 yrs old), but since so many women just throw themselves at men, they dont ever need those skills and dont bother to learn them.
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:16 PM
 
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a man to take charge? In your honest opinion, ladies...what do you think?
I definitely don't think "All" women want the same thing.

As for me, I certainly like a man to take charge in some things...other things I prefer to manage myself.
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Old 08-14-2009, 09:18 PM
 
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I am actually a little bit of a control freak. I am so afraid of becoming dependent on a man that I swing the exact opposite direction and don't let anyone do anything for me. Men don't seem to like that.

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Old 08-14-2009, 09:22 PM
 
Location: South FL
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How are you open about it? Do you tell him or send messages subliminally?
Well - in certain situations I just tell him that I want him to make a decision and take charge.
I never say degrading things like: "be a man for once", but more like: "decision is yours on this one".
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