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I'll post here while I'm still in my 30's at least for another couple of weeks. I want a woman with her shyt together, at least mentally. She doesn't have to have an important job. Just be somewhat sane. When I was in my 20's and out there I seemed really rough to meet someone who was intelligent and self sufficient.
Someone once said about his dating experience, that a lot of women fell in to 3 categories.
I'll post here while I'm still in my 30's at least for another couple of weeks. I want a woman with her shyt together, at least mentally. She doesn't have to have an important job. Just be somewhat sane. When I was in my 20's and out there I seemed really rough to meet someone who was intelligent and self sufficient.
Someone once said about his dating experience, that a lot of women fell in to 3 categories.
nag nag nag nag nag...nag........nag...I mean WOW!
Its like they start and they can't seem to stop themselves. "Help, I'm nagging and I can't shut up"
Trust me, I made it this far being a big boy; I don't think I need you telling me over and over and over and over and over again that I need to write that check out for my credit card bill that isn't even due for 20 bleepedy-bleep days!!! I mean DAMN!!! DAMN!!!
Everyone is different so not every guy at that age group is looking for the same thing. Some guys may be looking for a very independent woman, and others want a girl who will depend on them because they know they'll always be around.
Also, I personally don't go into a dating situation with any expectations. I recognize things I do like, as everyone is different, all have faults and good qualities. It's just more about whether you have more good qualities than bad ones.
You know what; a good way set yourself up to be disappointed is to try and live out a purefantasy in a reality that will only cooperate with you very minimally, therefore I never had the paradigm of lookingfor certain "key favorable" quality's in a woman. I believe this is why our divorce rate is so high; all the women are looking for there Ken and all the men are looking for there Barbie dolls so people are essentially chasing fantasy's.
Anyhow, my nonchalant approach with a serious dating prospect is to locate the unfavorable quality's FIRST so I can figure out exactly who/what I'm truly dealing with. It's the same approach when buying a car; you know, "whats wrong with it?"; "what needs to be fixed?" so I won't be left stranded in the middle of the road.
If I do this correctly, I think I can increase the odds of the relationship to work in the long run and completely avoid divorce.
Honestly, I don't know what my ideal girlfriend will be like, because I've not met her yet.
Make sense? Lol.
I don't have a predetermined set of rules or guidelines that my girlfriend will have to follow. It's all on a person-by-person basis.
I can't form the idea of an ideal girlfriend in my mind, honestly. I'll know her when I meet her.
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Well said Temptation 
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