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Old 09-01-2009, 10:47 AM
 
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I dont think most sane girls want a bad guy,i just think good looking guys can be jerks because they know they can get away with it..

Women reagrdless of what they try to say are as shallow or more then Men and if the guys very good looking he can get away with being a jerk/bad guy and the women will put up with it for a long period of time..
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:04 AM
 
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@JBT It's the same for men, too, if a woman is gorgeous. That's how it goes. We treat the good-looking better. Babies stare at them longer. They have an easier time getting jobs. They have an easier time attracting people into their lives regardless if they have a good personality or not.
I can't quote any articles...but I have read a few things about the subject.
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:07 AM
 
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@JBT It's the same for men, too, if a woman is gorgeous. That's how it goes. We treat the good-looking better. Babies stare at them longer. They have an easier time getting jobs. They have an easier time attracting people into their lives regardless if they have a good personality or not.
I can't quote any articles...but I have read a few things about the subject.
Of course i said men do the same thing where as women will deny that theyre like that..
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:33 AM
 
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Of course i said men do the same thing where as women will deny that theyre like that..
I think the stereotype is men=just look at women could care less about a woman's personality. The stereotype for women = want a man for their money.

Neither is absolutely true. Not at all. I can't speak for any other woman than myself, but I don't care about money. I was raised not to be dependent on a man so, his bank account is not what's going to pique my interest.
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:20 PM
 
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Of course i said men do the same thing where as women will deny that they're like that..
Well I think that is a statement that you cannot generalize upon. You see, both men and women are capable of stereotyping and judging, and both men and women are capable of denying it. Its human nature, and not really gender biased.
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:22 PM
 
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Why do women have such bad taste in men?

Maybe their taste is not bad. Maybe there's just an excess of bad men around. When women see a good man, they all flock and want the same thing. Problem is: there's a drought.
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:26 PM
 
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Is it just confusion of what she REALLY wants in a guy? or are most women blind to mens' personalities?

Just something I always wondered.

And what blindness would that be? Covered in tatoos, obsessed with porn, self-centered who only wants a f**k object, doesn't take responsibility of even basic duties in life?

That's the kind of blindness women have, or?...

The main problem is that men want women to accept them just as they are, no matter what their failings may be and often they are in denial of failings that everyone else can clearly see. But they want women to fit their own strict ideals.

A bit one-sided don't you think?
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:27 PM
 
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The main problem is that men want women to accept them just as they are, no matter what their failings may be and often they are in denial of failings that everyone else can clearly see. But they want women to fit their own strict ideals.

A bit one-sided don't you think?
Actually, it usually tends to be the other way around...
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:32 PM
 
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Of course, the most challenging thing I've encountered while dealing with female managers is keeping my eyes focused in the right direction, ifya know what I mean.

How do you feel if women would always oggle at your dick all the time, but never bother to look you in the eyes and listen to what you say?
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:33 PM
 
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