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View Poll Results: Worse...S/O sleeping w/someone they just met or sleeping with someone they know?
Sleeping with someone they do NOT know is worse 15 39.47%
Sleeping with someone they know is worse 23 60.53%
Voters: 38. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-17-2009, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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(and I'm bowing out of this now before I sound any more like some irritating Pollyanna type! )
Aaaww, you're so bubbly tonight, moonie! What are ya on? I'm on a 10 oz can of nuts and couldn't get that much serotonin going.
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Old 08-17-2009, 09:46 PM
 
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Aaaww, you're so bubbly tonight, moonie! What are ya on? I'm on a 10 oz can of nuts and couldn't get that much serotonin going.
Oh I'm flushed with the incredible fortuity to have purchased a duplicate set of bed linen on SALE last night for half the price I paid a couple of weeks ago. A set that I based my whole bedroom makeover around and I've just been in there making up my fabulous bed with the new linen knowing I can have TWO favorite doona sets and always be walking into my room and being HAPPY! Sleep is sacred to me. Knowing I'm going to walking into my version of Home Beautiful for a good while AND I didn't spend a fortune makes me VERY happy indeed!

AND seeing as I haven't done a bedroom makeover since that dropkick was in the building (and let me tell you I NEVER want confirmation of who I think he slept with behind my back) I feel like I've finally "washed that man right outta my hair" AND now I can look forward to MM being here in a very short time and.......well never mind! Let's just say my new bedroom makes me very happy.
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Old 08-17-2009, 09:51 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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(and i'm bowing out of this now before i sound any more like some irritating pollyanna type! :d)
too late!
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Old 08-17-2009, 09:51 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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AND now I can look forward to MM being here in a very short time and.......well never mind! Let's just say my new bedroom makes me very happy.
Ahem...

Yeah, they say to change everything on the bed (even the bed itself) after people. Unfortunately, furniture and mattresses tend to last a lot longer than relationships and are expensive.
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Old 08-17-2009, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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They're both bad!

But if I had to choose, I'd rather my s.o. cheat on me with someone he cared about rather than someone who meant nothing to him. Cheating with someone he didn't care for would mean he risked losing me for nothing.
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Old 08-17-2009, 10:14 PM
 
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Ahem...

Yeah, they say to change everything on the bed (even the bed itself) after people. Unfortunately, furniture and mattresses tend to last a lot longer than relationships and are expensive.
hehe! Yeah, I know! And believe me I'd love to have done exactly that but the bed was new back then so I couldn't justify turfing it after a few months.

I'd love to have started a bonfire in the backyard and burnt the lot BUT I settled for heavy duty cleaning with a complete chemical armoury!
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Old 08-17-2009, 10:16 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I'd love to have started a bonfire in the backyard and burnt the lot BUT I settled for heavy duty cleaning with a complete chemical armoury!
Sounds like exorcism!
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Old 08-17-2009, 10:38 PM
 
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Sounds like exorcism!
YEP!!! **nods vigorously**
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Old 08-18-2009, 04:14 AM
 
Location: Bon Temps
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yeah, you think that NOW. In reality, I'm not so sure.
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Really? Could you handle seeing him with her in a social setting after it happened or are you thinking she would be banned?

I just imagine if it's someone you both know that you are bound to run into her at some time.

Well it is not like I would want either to happen, but it seems like the lesser of the two evils. The whole idea of "stranger off the street" really bothers me, I guess because that would be like why would anybody do that.
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Old 08-18-2009, 06:52 AM
 
Location: pittsburgh
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either way cheating is un-acceptable
but it would be worse if it was somrone they know
cause you would wonder how long they been plotting to do it
or how many times they did it and got away with it

sleeping with someone they just met dont say much either
if they would do that to themselves (be a ho)
or do that the their S/O they they dont have morals or give a crap about you
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