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Lots of 'slutty past' replies in here. I have to say that I don't blame the guys though. If I were dating someone and found out that he had a 'slutty past', I'd probably be very uncomfortable, especially considering the fact that I've always been the monogomous type.
Deal breakers which I always have turned away from:
Smokers
Druggies
Short hair
Dummies
Deal breakers that I have learned by aging and experience in addition to the above:
Naggers
Gold diggers
Women who won't dance
Women with kids at home
Women who can't read or write
Women who don't like animals
Older women who were never married
Women who are lazy and sleep all the damn time
I hate it when people put too much emphasis on being parents. Sure, you're a parent for life, but honestly, making that your identity makes you dull as dirt.
I think the kids are the ones that suffer the most in that situation. Instead of a parent really being a parent, they become the definition of a parent. So, they delete from themselves what the kids find best. The differences that make (or would make) their mom or dad unique.
It's the same with marriage. People don't "have" a marriage. People "are" married. When they focus on "being married" as a thing instead of a state they lose touch with reality.
A chick who talks about kids and marriage basically at all, but especially early on, that's a big turn off. No thanks!
There are tons of gold diggers in L.A. but they are high-standard gold diggers. I'm well off, I'm not uber-rich, so the guys who are 10 years my senior are getting all of the hot chicks because they have a lot more money. Actually, I'm not always convinced they have more money, but they're more flashy with it anyway in this city. I'm more frugal.
1) Smoking, chewing, drugs (marijuana exempt unless she is a stoner)
2) Slutty past record - No one wants to be dating "that girl".
3) Bad appearance - A good smile, healthy weight, and good looking skin is all I ask for.
4) Non goal-oriented persona - I need someone with some ambition in their life.
5) Ditsyness - I figured this one is self-explanatory
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