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Old 08-21-2009, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Houston
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If you really want to talk to someone, call once. Don't call again while thinking "oh, maybe my call did not go through", etc. If he really wants to talk to you, he WILL call you. But sometimes it cannot hurt to show him you are interested
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Old 08-22-2009, 10:09 AM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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Wow never kissed a guy!? You sound like my sister extremely smart but never even had a date in her life. But i'm telling her and you, wait for mr. right...I believe he's out there. I kept dating mr. wrong wrong wrong wrong and wrong...and even though i had Mr. right at one time...let him go...ego thing when i was young. Now it's Mr. Treat me right and have a job with a kind heart.....And yes i was that loser that waited around on the phone"why didn't he call me?"or"Did i say something wrong" or "He must have another girl"or "it must be me" DON'T EVER BE THIS GIRL, SHE IS TORMENTING HERSELF!! Now I try to figure if he suits my wants and needs...is he worth my time? Would it even work? When I dated my net men..They did the calling...but now That I'm older i do it.
No worries. I learn A LOT from watching other people make mistakes. I have 6 siblings (I'm the youngest) who have pounded things into my head for years. I'm not in any hurry to find Mr. Right, I've got things I need to work on to better myself. He'll come along someday!
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Old 08-22-2009, 10:31 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Calling someone the same time everyday is weird IMO.
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Old 08-22-2009, 05:50 PM
 
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Calling someone the same time everyday is weird IMO.

wow , for once I actually agree with you.
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Old 08-22-2009, 10:59 PM
 
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I say just call when you feel like it.. games are silly and a waste of time.

Sometimes, I like the chase.. I enjoy being teased a little by a lady that I'm interested in. But at the same time, I don't look at a girl and think, "Man, she's easy", if she calls me.. I don't think anything like that. Actually, I'm a little relieved, it shows me that she's not the type to play those games, but at the same time, it shows me that she's more confident than I thought.
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Old 08-22-2009, 11:16 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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^^^^Can we clone you? Man, I wish more guys were like you! I've dated a guy that would take too much calling as a signal that he was in control and would get arrogant. It's great in bed but obnoxious elsewhere.
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Old 08-23-2009, 12:10 AM
 
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I just start thinking he is no longer interested and probably is dumping me.
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Old 08-23-2009, 01:13 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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Even in so called mature relationships where you are not supposed to play games, isn't it wiser to let the man continue to persue you a little? Or is that just lame and you should call if you feel like it?
It is lame, but it's also true. It's wise to play a little hard to get.
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Old 08-23-2009, 09:06 PM
 
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^^^^Can we clone you? Man, I wish more guys were like you! I've dated a guy that would take too much calling as a signal that he was in control and would get arrogant. It's great in bed but obnoxious elsewhere.
Clone me? Now that's just scary, not to mention insane. I don't think the world is ready for that kind of madness and mayhem!
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