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I talk to my share of women and they ALWAYS have some drama filled past relationship story( all of which I don't want to hear). Where does all of that sh&t come from?
Sometimes I really think it's them and not the person they are talking about.
I think some people really enjoy having drama in their relationships?
I realized a long time ago that life is not Pollyanna, Brady Bunch, Anne of Green Gables <insert whatever twee "perfect" world you'd like here> so basically unless you're planning on dating a 12 year old (scrap that! with "progress" probably more like a 10 year old ) you're going to come across people of the opposite gender in the dating pool who have history, a story, some previous bad times and bad relationships.
What you have to discern is how much do you like this person and does what happened in the past affect you in the now. Other than that it's a sad fact that there will always be people who behave badly, always "victims" of the bad behaviour AND always a life story. If you aren't interested in knowing what makes the woman your with tick might I suggest a blow up doll?
If you are referring to women, then yes. They have more than likely had drama in their life. You should feel privalaged that they at least feel close enough to you, to share their drama. Not b*tch about it.
If you do, then stop complaining, and just grow a cold heart, and move on to the next one, who has drama as well.
I know a lot of girls like this! All their relationships are and have been full of bat**** crazy drama! I really think it's the individual... some people just need that drama to keep the relationship exciting.
I don't understand the appeal of it. I nip drama in the bud if a guy tries to start it with me. It's so pointless.
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