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Ok, so around 7 months ago, I was traumatized. My fiance keeps bringing up my past, and now is saying he doesnt feel comfortable kissing me or touching me because he knows that other guys' junk has been in my mouth or in me. He has been with 8 girls, in sexual relationships. I have only been with two. Yet he continues to call me a ***** and all this. So I'm not quite sure what he is thinking. But is it right to even bring up someone elses past, unless you're going to discuss something about it? I mean he pretty much uses my past to make me feel bad.
Dump him. He's insecure and abusive. Who needs that? For future reference, you might not want to divulge too much information to your partner about past relationships. It benefits no one and only serves to fulfill their morbid, or sordid, curiosity.
No. Never. For a person who constantly throws your past back in your face is a person who will always penalize you for telling him the truth. Walk away for he has an abusive personality.
Ok, so around 7 months ago, I was traumatized. My fiance keeps bringing up my past, and now is saying he doesnt feel comfortable kissing me or touching me because he knows that other guys' junk has been in my mouth or in me. He has been with 8 girls, in sexual relationships. I have only been with two. Yet he continues to call me a ***** and all this. So I'm not quite sure what he is thinking. But is it right to even bring up someone elses past, unless you're going to discuss something about it? I mean he pretty much uses my past to make me feel bad.
That is disgusting . I'm sorry but your fiance needs to be dropped ASAP he is an emotionally abusive a**hole!! That is not bringing up your past, that is degrading you and making you to feel like you are unloveable and untouchable. He is trying to break you down. You need to find the nearest escape route and run!
Ok, so around 7 months ago, I was traumatized. My fiance keeps bringing up my past, and now is saying he doesnt feel comfortable kissing me or touching me because he knows that other guys' junk has been in my mouth or in me. He has been with 8 girls, in sexual relationships. I have only been with two. Yet he continues to call me a ***** and all this. So I'm not quite sure what he is thinking. But is it right to even bring up someone elses past, unless you're going to discuss something about it? I mean he pretty much uses my past to make me feel bad.
Drop him. Immediately. That's mental abuse and you should not stand for it.
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. I'm sorry but your fiance needs to be dropped ASAP he is an emotionally abusive a**hole!! That is not bringing up your past, that is degrading you and making you to feel like you are unloveable and untouchable. He is trying to break you down. You need to find the nearest escape route and run!
