Do you have any special "moves"? (date, women, younger)
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Do you have any special "moves" that you use one a date or afterwards to get the person to open up to you, or let them know you are interested?
I date via internet. First date is something easy, casual, not really a date.
Second date, I offer to walk them home, stop to say goodbye well before the doorstep as to not lead on that I'm looking to be invited in.
And the last thing I do is I say "goodnight" and I lay the kiss on, short and sweet, then get out of there.
I do this for two reasons:
1. It not only shows I'm interested, but I'm also trying to gauge HER interest. If she kisses me back then there's a chance. If she turns her head then I know she's not into me.
2. It shows I have confidence and that I'm a man with a backbone, not afraid to take risks, and that I'm not afraid to go after something if I want it. Girls like that.
I like it when men call or text briefly after the first date after they get home - just a short note to say they had a nice time or something to that effect. Then give it a day or two and follow up with another invitation. Not the ones who do the 'let eons pass by in between to show you're not desperate' move.
If I want someone to open up to me, get to know them better when talking to them.....will get them talking about what they are passionate about. After that they are more likely to open up.
I like it when men call or text briefly after the first date after they get home - just a short note to say they had a nice time or something to that effect. Then give it a day or two and follow up with another invitation. Not the ones who do the 'let eons pass by in between to show you're not desperate' move.
I agree with this, but this works better with girls 25+
After 25 women are tired of playing games. I used to wait the 3-5 days to call, and it naturally had a positive effect on younger girls, and really really attractive women.
But now that I'm older, I may text to let them know I got home okay if they ask me to, but usually now I' just call the next day, let them know I had a nice time last night, and ask them out again.
Do you have any special "moves" that you use one a date or afterwards to get the person to open up to you, or let them know you are interested?
To get them to open up, I look them in the eyes when they're talking, I smile, and I do something that a lot of guys fail at. I listen. You'd be amazed how well this works.
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