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So at the end of last year, I was hanging out with my (70 year old- looking like 50 aunt) LOLLL, and we went to pick up her granddaughter, but before we went to ta gas station and cafe, a very nice spot which happened to be in front of her granddaughters school, and there was a guy which was really nice and my aunt started talking to him, I dont remember him physically speaking, but I can recall he was nice, he happened to be the owner of the place and was young, he was being very sweet (like trying to be social and have a conversation with me), the point is that at that moment I was not living here in the states but abroad.
I also had a boyfriend at that time, but now I am permanently leaving here, my aunt has gone back to that place a couple of times and saw the guy again, and they started talking and he asked her, if I lived abroad due to the fact that if I had a boyfriend or husband over there, and inspite her knowing I had a bf she replied to him:'' no she is single'' (she knew my relationship was a waste of time and was not working, which I was aware of as well)she told me that he seems like a very nice,sweet well put together guy and that he is a good catch, and now that I am hereI am curious to see what he is up to, cause he was in fact very sweet the first time I went to his gas station cafe, perhaps I am being naive or too dreamy, but hey you never know, maybe I catch up again and we can exchange numbers and see where it goes that is if he does not have a GIRLFRIEND OR MARRIED(I cannot believe things are to good to be true) maybe he is neither. my aunt told me the he was ’‘single’’. maybe he is not anymore, I dont know.
Should I go with her again to the cafe, buy something and see if he is there maybe start a conversation with him, what should I do? maybe he is worth it, you never know!.
Definitely go and see if there's anything! There's no reason to pass up an opportunity like this. I took a chance on a stranger I met over the internet who lived 450 miles away; we're married now and are living in his state. We're very happy. He's not a young business owner, but it still had a good ending. You never know who you might meet and click with. Keep us posted too if you will; we'd love to hear if it turns into something! Best wishes!
OP: Do you really need random strangers on a public forum to tell you what to do in the situation as presented?
If so you do not appear to be ready for a relationship of any kind.
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