Here's a weird sexual sleep thing (sex, advice, couple, feeling)

[VanHalen5150]

I will try to make this as PG as possible. I am being 100% truthful here.

My SO has developed a significant sleep disorder, to the point where she cant sleep well unless she takes something for it. Be it tylonol PM, or something like that, or a prescription sleep aid (ambien) on days when she can actually sleep in.

It has made sex for me kind of weird, let me elaborate.

We both want it, and are both all about it, but there have been a couple times in the last week that as I am getting it on, the sleep aid is kicking in. And it's been... weird to say the least. I can tell she's not as responsive as she normally is, until I really get going, then it's just about normal, but not great, but there have been a couple instances that it's almost like she is passing out in the middle of it. I have even asked her, do you still want to do this, and she affirms.

I still take care of business and give her what she needs, and I get what I need, but is it wrong of me to be weirded out by this?

Above and beyond it being weird, I feel that due to her "state" she is not able to put as much into it, even if subconsciously, and it's not as good for me. I feel I have to hurry up and finish.

Without breaking some silly PG guidelines they have here, that's as much as I can say.

But am I wrong for feeling like this, I don't even know how I should bring this up to her. To combat it, I have been trying to get her to have sex earlier after work, or right after dinner, but the timing does not always work, or she has to do something, or we are doing something out...

[CapsChick]

She should take the sleep aid after you have sex. Problem solved.

[VanHalen5150]

Originally Posted by CapsChick

She should take the sleep aid after you have sex. Problem solved.

I suggested that, but it takes a while to kick in, so she tried to time it to coincide with us going to bed. The PROBLEM is, the timing isnt working out.

[convextech]

So have sex earlier. In the kitchen.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by convextech

So have sex earlier. In the kitchen.

The best advice, although HIS sleep aid is probably just rolling over after he "finishes," so I doubt that will work.

OP, it is weird because you know it's like doing it with a super drunk girl. She's NOT really there.

[Ginge McFantaPants]

IDK, even with explicit permission to continue after she falls asleep... I'd probably still feel weird about it, too.

[oh-eve]

Morning sex!

[convextech]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

The best advice, although HIS sleep aid is probably just rolling over after he "finishes," so I doubt that will work.

OP, it is weird because you know it's like doing it with a super drunk girl. She's NOT really there.

Exactly. She's practically in a coma.

[VanHalen5150]

Originally Posted by Ms.Mathlete

IDK, even with explicit permission to continue after she falls asleep... I'd probably still feel weird about it, too.

Let me be perfectly clear, at no point is she actually asleep or passed out... but she's clearly not "all there", you can see it in her eyes

She's also totally climaxing too (multiple times, ), but it's like she is kind of in a fog, and out like a light after I finish and get off of her

Originally Posted by oh-eve

Morning sex!

I prefer mornings, personally, but our work schedules differ and I get up 2 hours earlier than she does except on weekends

[convextech]

Originally Posted by VanHalen5150

She's also totally climaxing too (multiple times, ), but it's like she is kind of in a fog, and out like a light after I finish and get off of her

She's just wanting to get to sleep now, so she's faking it and then passes out from the pill doing its job. You do know that right? LOL