Hi Group,
I've been mulling over a thought/question/concern pertaining to my current relationship with a wonderful Lady.
Now, some may think that this is a minor concern for a relationship...
- I feel that it's rather important [well, to me] and a key component to a successful relationship.
All my Life, I've noticed that most couples are usually about the same body type, height, weight etc.
My concern pertains to "Body Type".
"Body Type" is one of the main qualifiers when searching for a mate on all of the online dating sites.
'Body Types' would be classified as: slender, athletic/toned, normal, with a few extra pounds, etc.
Now, I am 5' 10" tall, and at present weight maybe 155Lbs. - (I've lost a good 10+ pounds over the last year, probably due to the untimely passing of my Dear Wife of 27 years, last March 29th. - I haven't eaten or slept properly ever since).
My Lady friend is 5' 8" tall, and of a 'stocky' build.
- I would never Dare to ask her weight [I value my Life too much...
] and of course it wouldn't be proper.
- However, if I were to venture a guess, I'd say at least 160/170....God help me if it's MORE.
My late Irish Wife was a tiny little thing, of 5'4" and weighted about 105 dripping wet.
I used to be able to put my arm around her waist, and touch the other side of her.
I would have to say that all throughout my Life, every girlfriend that I ever had, [no more than 7] was roughly equivalent to my same body type, and I've never been with a Lady 'larger' than I.
With my new Lady friend, let's just say, "that Ain't gonna happen", and leave it there.
- Now my concern is for the Future...
IF/When we are both ready to become intimate, I have 'concerns' about that.
Am I being too crazy thinking about this???
- Please Folks, no jokes on this, ok?
- This truly is a concern for me.
Any comments/thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated.
Thank You All,
- Watch out there today & tomorrow everybody, Winter Storm Quinn looks like a Doozie!
Queue the old Manfred Mann song, "The Mighty Quinn".
CT2MEwoodnutt
P.S. - Thank God for our Great Forum here, where one can be 'anonymous' and pose a question. I probably could not verbalize my thoughts here, face to face with someone, you know?